2006-07-13 17:05:24 · 46 answers · asked by maurice s 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
maurice! 12 years old and having sex?! good work. but dont do it again until youre older. tell your dad. hes a man he'll understand. and if he yells at you say "i thought you'd understand because your a man and you used to be my age. i thought i could trust you." the reason you gotta tell your dad is because he can take you to a clinic and have you tested for STDs.
take care and b4 I 4get---
STAY IN SCHOOL! DONT DO DRUGS!
2006-07-13 17:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by DLC696969 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you have sex at the age of 12? I'm sure you don't want to hear this, but you are so young. You need to speak with your parents or, at least, some intelligent adult about this. There are a lot of consequences involved when you have sex with somebody. There is the possibility of sexually transmitted diseases and, of course, the possibility of an unplanned pregnancy. In addition to those obvious things, there are some pretty significant emotional consequences that go along with having sex at such a young age.
Please speak with an adult that you love and respect. Also, try to hold off on any more sex for a few more years. I wish you all the best.
2006-07-13 17:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by MJL613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think it's wrong to let the whole world knows & your parent the last to find it out!!!!!!!!!!!Now that you have let the cats out of the bag,approch your parent with the right time & mood to get this topic out.If you are a female yes it will always good to talk to your mum first.If you are a male then spell it out,as a mistake you have done in your usually daily life.
Still the best advice is keep sex aside & look forward to a happy life.Sex will come in time but not at your age enjoy your teenage.
2006-07-13 17:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, definitely tell your parents. I think it’s pretty important that they know. Since you’re a twelve-year-old, I assume that your parents can help you somehow. Maybe they will help you consider saying “no” next time, or maybe they will tell you how to have safer sex or something. Whatever the case, talk to them. I’m guessing your parents will be able to help in one way or another, because you are so young. (Hey, I’m only a teen myself!) Definitely tell your parents. You may get yelled at or something, but I still think you could use your parents' advice. Don't be afraid to tell them.
2006-07-13 17:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Maurice: tell you parents you had sex and who with ASAP.
Having sex at your age is DANGEROUS; you're not quite ready to take the necessary precautions to protect YOURSELF because out there floats around a whole lot of nasty sex transmmitted diseases---inculding AIDS, which is deadly and there's no ( known ) cure for.
Right now, you're waaaayyy tooo young to "do it". Your parents will help you get the information you need to better protect yourself when you have sex again......perferably when you are OLDER.
And besides: you want to EARN their trust.....so be fully honest. Don't let them find out through others.
2006-07-13 17:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about your life, your parents, or the circumstances surrounding your experience with sex. But I really think you need to tell someone who you look up to.
I hope you feel able to discuss this with your parents - but be prepared, their first response may not be what you expect, and they will probably not know the best way to respond. If you talk to them - give them time to listen.
2006-07-13 17:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by chocolette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...sit down with ur mother or an adult that u trust. since u have had sex it is time for u to see the GYN and get some birth control and a Pap.
PS. pls try not to grow up to fast live as a child for as long as possible.
2006-07-13 17:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by poohbearmomma_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Your parents only want what's best for you. Even bad parents want what's best for you (they just can't show it). If you don't trust your parents, then go to an OLDER trusted friend--someone older than 20. They have lived life and can give you the best advice as to what to do with yourself.
2006-07-13 17:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DID WAT????you are waaay to young to be having sex...i mean come on......u could have gotten AIDS, could be pregnant...yes you should tell ur parents.......jeez someone needs to knock some sense into you.....your still a kid...enjoy it while it lasts.....u should have waited till ur married..then you could handle the consequences.....ur parents are gonna be soo angry and never trust you again......
2006-07-13 17:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by x3stephthesupergeekx3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u should. U should always be open and honest about sex with your parents.
2006-07-13 17:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by Whatever! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋