It seems whenever I get intimate and the situation arrises....right after sex I feel dirty, disguested, ashamed, and don't like to be touched. This hads happenedin all my relationships! Is this normal?!!?
2006-07-13 16:40:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
It is normal if you have sex before you get married. After you get married, it is a wonderful thing.
2006-07-13 16:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by seatonrsp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your relationships have been lacking something. I'm not saying you should wait till you're married, but if you're feeling ashamed afterwards, I would say it sounds more like your relationships are empty. I used to feel that way afterward. When it was all over, I couldn't wait to get my clothes on and get out. Then I realized that I felt that way 'cuz that was all we had. When I found the one that I wanted to make love to and then wake up with in the morning, I knew I had something special. Food for thought.
2006-07-13 16:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by rsqur 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you may be feeling like you really don't like the person your having sex with...and your ashamed that you did it or "disguested"....It may be your past too...If it gets really bad go see a doctor, lots of people have the same problem! Don't worry you will be fine, it may help finding one person istead of multiple sex partners. If your religous you may have felt like you sin! Good luck!
2006-07-13 16:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well if you are a religious person then it is natural and you should feel this way because you are burning in hell and commiting shameful sins unless you are both married and only having sex to procreate and this is the effect that years of church brain washing has had on you or you were raped and have not dealt with all your issues regarding this, these are common issues women face as almost half of the female population ends up getting sexually assaulted in their lifetime, so you need to love and accept yourself be a good church girl or reject your religion and shame and guilt and enjoy your sex life
2006-07-13 16:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
your name is lovetoy14u. so that could mean "one four you" or you could be a 14 year old girl. are u 14? bc if you are, the reason you feel dirty is because you're way too young to be having sex. sex is for older people. if you want to have sex, get a nice steady boyfriend and use protection. people in monogamous relationships dont usually feel dirty after sex. are you having sex for the right reasons? sex is supposed to be an expression of love, not a recreational thing. it becomes recreational after your 18th birthday.
And dont you forget, young lady!!
STAY IN SCHOOL!
2006-07-13 16:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by DLC696969 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
No. There usually is some deep reason why you feel this way. Either somebody told you it was disgusting, or if you have been molested or raped in the past it could make you feel dirty. If it is that bad you should get counseling.
2006-07-13 16:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by pixles 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Of course not...please call a mental health clinician and get some help..there has to be a reason that you feel this way and you need to have help finding out otherwise you will have a hard time having a long term relationship.
2006-07-13 16:45:00 · answer #7 · answered by FloNightingGale 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
mmm i think so, personally it hasn't happened to me but i've afriend who feels really bad after sex, he doenst even want to be seen!! so i think that may happen but get over it man sex is not bad ;)
2006-07-13 16:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by bmatamoros90 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask to be spanked -- it helps.
2006-07-13 17:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by your_pits_smell 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
No, unless you have AIDS.
2006-07-13 16:42:38 · answer #10 · answered by psychoassassin424 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋