one day i was goin some where w/ one of my friends and then the other 1 started cryin and then she came w/ us but her mom said we should start 2 do stuff 2 gether. So we did. but then tha other day she and that other friend went somewhere 2 gether now im left out! Now isnt that retarted can u help??
2006-07-13 16:06:51 · 7 answers · asked by rebeccad94 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To many "the other friend"(s). But not big deal maybe they just need time to themselves for awhile.Why don't you confront them about it?Don't try to put it in a bad way.Sometimes, even when we don't mean to, we make things sound jealous or mean when we where trying to put it in a respectful way.
2006-07-13 16:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by Angelina T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think anything of it. That's normal.
I too have always had a lot of friends.
Sometimes we all go together and sometimes just two of us go.
It's always a spur of the moment idea, to go somewhere and we don't always call the others because we either didn't think of it or we were in a hurry.
None of my friends have ever felt left out.
We ALL do that. Sometimes, it just takes too long to get the other person involved.
Let's say, for example, two of us were talking and my friends mom walked up.
She says, "Hey, I'm going to the mall(as she's walking to the car), would you two like to go?"
We say, "YEAH!", and jump in the car. See? They would not have had time to get you there. Mom was leaving, right then!
Lot's of these kind of things happen.
I'm sure they still like you as a good friend.
Maybe NEXT time, one of the other girls will not be near by when two of you decide to go do something.
Don't worry. That just happens.
Don't take it personally. It's nothing.
2006-07-13 16:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just play it off as though it don't bother you. Sounds to me like the cry baby friend is a spoiled brat!!!!!! Just do things with who you feel comfortable and enjoy being around the most. Don't hang out with someone to make their mom happy. If she is big enough to go out with you two then she is big enough not to cry and have her mom talk to you guys. Sounds to me like this friend may be the reason for all of this and why you were left out. It is called jealously and she must be of you!!!! I would watch out for her!!!!
2006-07-13 16:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by lkk_04_04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might want to tell your friends how you feel. Don't just stop being friends let them know you feel left out. Frriends need to communicate with each other, if you dont it builds up to where you make a big deal out of something small.
2006-07-13 16:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront your friends about it. Tell them straight out you dislike being left out. And if they don't give a damn, find other friends!
2006-07-13 16:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a little confusing but i thikn that it is retarted though.
2006-07-13 16:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like her as a freind try geting a freind that u can spend time with when shes with her
2006-07-13 16:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by scooter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋