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i always get made fun of and everyone hates me and i have no friends cuz of it... i didnt choose to be in this situation but i'm tired of being judged and hated just because i dont go to school... i'm only 13 but i've never had a boyfriend (like everyone else did) and i'm not in a clique and it's annoying because i'm a nice person and no one even cares cuz all they see is homeschooled... i'm a complete loner and i hate it! does anyone understand me AT ALL?!! like how am i ever gunna get married without knowing any guys or anything... this is just wut everyone tells me. that i need to go to school (as i want to do) to have any chance of a life at all... i mean, is it even POSSIBLE for a homeschooled chick to have a boyfriend?!! or just be alone forever. i'm really sad all the time and that always seem to be the base of it... can sumbody please think of sumthin to say concerning this??? please????????
2006-07-13 15:57:30 · 17 answers · asked by AJ_Let'sGetFucktUp&Die. 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Show this post to your parents. The question, I mean.
Seriously, they need to know how hurt and lonely you are!
2006-07-13 16:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by LazlaHollyfeld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I homeschool. You can socialize in all kinda of homeschool programs. Lots of homeschool girls have boyfriends. Most are actually smarter then their friends that go to normal school. I know this because I feel the same way and im a loner. Just talk to your parent/guardian about finding somthing for you to meet people in like a homeschool club. I know every program should hav on. If you aren't in a program tell your parent/guardian to get on the net and look for some homeschool clubs. You don't have to go to school to meet people. Just get out and do stuff like sports or somthing. I mean there are drama clubs all over the place and many many other types. I only homeschooled because I wanted to make my mom happy. I hate it. Im not in any clubs yet. However im getting into some so I will have social. The person above...YOU CAN GO TO BETTER COLLEGES IF YOU'RE HOMESCHOOLED!!!
2006-07-13 23:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by Cecilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really surprised dear that this is what is going on. Most homeschooling families I know (we choose NOT to homeschool for a variety of reasons) go above and beyond to make sure that their kids have good social interaction with other kids their own age.
You know, you might approach your parents about taking ONE course at a local school. I know friends who homeschool but their daughter goes to the school just for french I think.....
I am just assuming that you might be religious. What about Youth Group? Many Churches have them. Also---I dont know if your parents are in touch with other homeschooling families. We have a lot in our area....and they plan recreational things together.
I think the key is to have a good discussion with your parents on this. I will tell you that I have a 12 year old boy---and he is not allowed to date until he is 16....so not every 13 yr old girl or boy has had a boyfriend. Sometimes, when we are in the midst of things---it is hard to see that not everyone has things that you don't. Again, talk to your parents and see what their reasoning is and see if you cant present your side of the story in a well thought out manner.
2006-07-13 23:09:21 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was homeschooled for four years against my will. I have three sisters who were all doing badly in school so my mom decided to take us all out and homeschool us. I totally feel what you are going through. Homeschooling isn't for everyone and I have suffered years of depression and social inadequacy because it wasn't right for me. Though it did help my sisters.
In all honesty you should sit down with your parents and tell them how you feel. Tell them you are feeling left out and depressed and are worried about how you are handling things, as in not well at at. If they do not listen talk to a trusted adult, an aunt, uncle, or pastor, someone your parents would be willing to listen to. Tell THEM how you feel and ask that they help you talk to your parents.
Or if you have a hard time talking to someone write it out in a letter and either give it to your parents or a trusted adult. The main thing here is that you seem depressed and that could lead to BAD THINGS and you want to nip it in the bud before it gets worse.
If you would like you can email me and we can talk. I totaly knwowhat you are going through and would love to help you end up in a better place then I did.
2006-07-13 23:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by cerwenna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, a good number of people have the same problem, and even if you go to regular school, that does not necessarily mean that you will get a boyfriend. Your time will come =) A guy I know named Austin was homeschooled, and now he has one of the awesomest boyfriends evor XD
2006-07-13 23:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by xdannifenx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I am homescholled aswell. I was taken out of school when I finished grade 6. I never really had friends. Yes it is possible for you to have friends and even a boyfriend. Catch up with ya later. TICK TOCK
2006-07-14 02:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by TICK TOCK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom or dad or other adult responsible for you should know how you are feeling. Why are you home schooled? Find out the reason before you lose it on them... I feel public school is necessary to help you relate to the real world, and is an excellent social environment for kids. Forget boys and marriage sweetie, get through school first.
2006-07-13 23:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by Kimmy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents and explain to them you want to attend a regular school either public or private. If this is out of the question try getting involved in something extracurricular like soccer or tennis at your local YMCA
2006-07-13 23:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do people hate you? I use to have the same situation. I was hated by most of my classmates, but now since we got to know each other very well we all became friends. Try to get to know them, Do not act mean, to nice or to shy they will use that against you. Act yourself try to get to know them and soon you'll have friends and soon a Boyfriend.
2006-07-13 23:33:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you poor thing! school is my only chance to socialize... im not sure what I would do without it!... maybe you could convince your parents to let you go to highschool? try it and if that doesnt work, then see if they will let you take classes for a hobby... like guitar lessons or a sport. at my school, homeschooled kids can be on our sports teams... then they meet lots of new kids and burn of lots of energy. good luck meeting people! and remember, friends before boyfriends!
2006-07-13 23:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!! i am not home schooled but guess what? i have never had a bf either! and i am 14! it's OK, ur not a freak or anything! it's u will find someone and get married and everything, just b/c u r home schooled doesn't mean ur life is over! it's OK, u r perfectly normal.!! talk to me again sometime, i will be ur friend! my email is inky2112@yahoo.com, write me sometime!
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2006-07-13 23:10:35 · answer #11 · answered by tennis-fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋