please tell me that not all men are perverts!?

Question

god I hate that when some guy like whistles at you or something... it just pisses me off so much! please tell me not all men are like this!

thanks. I just needed a little reassurance

and yes, I know they mean it as a compliment I guess, but im only 13! they could at least look silently...

Answer 1

Okay, we're not all like that.

Answer 2

Not all men are perverts ... but you really need to lighten up a little.

Have you ever listened to Howard Stern? Does the word " a n a l " mean anything to you? And you are upset at some whistling?

There are plenty of guys out there who simply think a woman - and a beautiful woman especially - is a beautiful thing. They think that whistling at you is an accepted way of letting you know. They can't come up to you, have lunch and then say "you're beautiful", so they whistle!

Worse things can happen in your life. Much more perverted things can happen in your life. Smile, wag your fanny, and take it as a complement.

Jeez!

(I thought you might be complaining about child abuse, ATM, your boyfriend wanting an orgy or something. Whistling? Get some perspective!)

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Answer 3

OK, some men are rude about it, but they are paying attention to you. Isn't that what you want when you make up, do your hair, etc. You can't pick and choose. If you look good, most men will notice and some will be rude about it. If it a hot guy you are flattered, if they are ugly they are perverted? How does that work. You need to have a snappy comback for the rude ones and understand that you look the same to everyone. You can't look great to one and look plain to another. Enjoy the flattery when appropriate and put other in their place.

Answer 4

Sorry for you.
Had the same when I was your age. Came accross lots of men who acted like perverts (just whistling would have been nice). Quite unsettling, I know.
Answer is: no, definitely not all perverts. Just a small minority (not necessarily those who whistle though).
Do not worry if you can.

Answer 5

not all men are the same u cant judge a whole group just because most of the ppl act a certain way. that's like saying all girls who wear mini skirts and thongs are sluts which isn't true. so yes there are some men out there who has respect and will not whistle and grab on females

Answer 6

no not all men are perverts. but when a guy whistles at you he thinks that he is giving you a compliment. think of it this way, if you was a big fat ugly girl men wouldnt pay any attention to you at all. then how would you feel if you didnt get any attention at all?

Answer 7

Not all are perverts, but a hot girl brings out the pervert in most men.

Answer 8

No not all men are perverts, but to be honest theres as many pervert women as there are men, just try any chatroom with open webcams on internet land its hard noadays to have a conversation with a woman without her asking to see your penis so it goes both ways men can be perverts and so can women

Answer 9

Not all men are perverts!

Whistling at you does not make him a pervert. It might make him appear crude. It may not be what you want to hear.

If they did not find you attractive, they would not whistle!

Answer 10

If all men are perverts then that is natural and not perverted.
Men all think about sex. A lot.
How they express those feelings and how they treat women are what separates the gentlemen from the jerks.
But. as a woman, let me tell you that men's internal feelings are not that different.

Answer 11

All men are not perverts. Many boys are though! Usually all the behavior is just a dumb way of hiding insecurity. What ever you do, don't try to change one, let them learn on their own.