I think my bf is done with me, last night I wasn’t really felling good, so I left his house and I came home, he didn’t call me last night to ask how I was doing or any think, so I told my self that I was not going to call him, so he calls me this morning and he talks to me like nothing happened, so I said thanks for asking but I am felling good. And he said u always have to say something smart, if I am not treating u right, so why are u talking to me, u want every thing to be right I am not perfect, and he also said that he taught I was different but I am like every other gf he had, I don’t trust him I call him a lot , and all this stuff, and he also said u are going to leave me anyway so I am not going to change so don’t even try to change me and a lot of other stuff. So I told him that I will stop what am doing and u have to start treating me right and he got mad and he said I will call u back and he haven’t called me back yet, every thing I say, he thinks I am trying to tell him what to do?? I want it to work but he is gating mad at me, how can I just forget everything and do something fun with out talking about it. I NEED IDEAS???? THANX GUYS.
2006-07-13 15:34:35 · 7 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm serious, not trying to be rude...
you need to make a self-esteem check and see if your confidence in yourself needs improvement. Sounds like you're not happy with the guy and both of you are looking for something better. Time to mature in yourselves and learn from the mistakes you made.
Sounds like both of you are not ready to further your relationship. Until both of resolve, grow up and learn to speak to each others "language," this relationship cannot move on from where it is.
You did not mention how old you are, either. If you're younger than eighteen, start to reevaluate your goals and take notice what you can offer a man.
2006-07-13 15:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by n9wff 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you get attitude no matter what you say or do then I say forget him. Something is up for a guy to be complaining that you call too much. I mean if you call him 5-6 times a day I can understand I guess. If he can't calmly talk to you about your relationship without getting POed then leave him alone for a few days and see if he calls you. Maybe if you go "missing" he'll realize that he is better with you then without you.
2006-07-13 22:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by Aubrey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to grow up ..Quit being sarcastic with him..Maybe he didn't call you when you weren't feeling well because he didn't want to bother you..He is right too no one is perfect......Give the guy a break and quit checking up on him all the time.........You have to have Trust to make a relationship work and doesn't sound like there is much here...Be nice to him and he'll be nice to you
2006-07-13 22:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know i how are feeling right now because my husband is the same way toward me sometime what i do when he act that way i do not call him no more and days later he is calling me asking me why haven't u call me today . i know u are saying don't they live together well no me and my husband is separte for almost two yrs now i live in raliegh nc and he lives in kill devil hill nc . so don't call him no more let him call u for now on
2006-07-13 22:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is a very immature person. Maybe you should back off for awhile and look at your relationship as some one else would and see it like they would.
2006-07-13 22:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by stormy16438 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's cheating and think he's going to get caught, that's why he be tripping, if he cared he would have asked how r u feeling, that's just my opinion, I am older been there done that, you'll see for yourself.
2006-07-13 22:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by Roe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF!!!!!! Learn how to spell then get laid
2006-07-13 22:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋