This is a serious question. Why don't my nipples get hard when I am aroused? is it cause they're big?

Question

I am a 44 DD without any augmentation. Can that cause it? Should I consider reduction surgery? Any serious suggestions would be appreciated. My husband doesn't complain, but I know he would like it better.

Answer 1

Wow! That is the MOTHER OF ALL questions. Sadly my one and only suggestion to you is to try direct stimulation of your nipples with tongue and touch- that is how I see the quickest most effective hardening of the nipples. Beyond that I can really only stress how lucky you are that not having rock hard nipples is the main strain in your sexlife. More importantly than anything just talk to him openly about it and see how he really feels. Something as trivial as soft nipples should NEVER be a destructive element in a relationship. Let's just say that soft nipples really-really bother him (which I guarantee you they don't) if he thinks he's gonna find a woman who cares about him as much as you do (which I can tell by your querie) and who also has 44DD's he's freakin nuts!!!!!

Answer 2

I don't know if your breast size is to blame but women (& men) have varying degrees of nipple sensitivity. Some women are constantly "flashing high beams" (nipples showing through clothes) and others don't. Mine are different since I breastfed. If you've breastfed or been pregnant that could be why as well.

Answer 3

Every women is different. Do they ever get hard? Like when you are cold. Do you have feeling pleasure? Surgery may not be the answer because is can cause nervous to be come different and pleasure to be reduced.

Answer 4

Nothing to worry about, just natural. Women differ in areas prone to instant reaction. You might've other spots to compensate. Just enjoy so long none feels embarrassed by this natural phenomenon.

Answer 5

Some women just don't have sensitive or reactive nipples. Not much you can do.

Answer 6

try applying a grease on it rub and see. I too like it when it is hard and aroused.