My 1st relationship lasted for 6yrs,he cheated numerous times,still wants me back.2nd relationship is going on 2yrs,hesays he hasn't actually had sex with anyone,that they just talked.We are still rocky but I love him & he says he loves me and he wants to be with me.Both men have told me that they love how I am in bed&out of bed,that I didn't do anything wrong.I just don't understand why would they do this to me if they loved me.I have children from both men.Why do I attract men who cheat?Why do I still want to be with them after finding out?And most of all why did these men cheat if I'm not to blame?
2006-07-13 15:22:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You aren't the blame, men make their own minds up to go out there and deal with temptation. You attract them because you are a push over (I use to be), so they get their cake & ice cream because you won't do anything but make excuses for them and go on with whatever they want. So, until you are tired of being tired, because it will happen even if it's a very long time, (31 yrs here), then you're be with them. Once that tireness set in, you are not going to listen to, say anything, deal with them, or make an effort to straighten things out. You will just leave them along and if they push you an inch, go for their thoat. Time will show you.
2006-07-13 15:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Since this has happened twice..I think now is the time to re-evaluate your choice in men. You obviously are drawn to a man that has "this in him" as they say.
If you dont explore why you choose this kind of man..plan on griping when #3 cheats.
I am sorry that you are dealing with this. But evaluate yourself or possibly consider counceling to help dissect this for you.
A cheating man is not someone you should waste your time with.
p.s.
Save sex for a marriage. How do you expect a man to commit or act committed in a non committed relationship?
Best wishes to you!
2006-07-13 16:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by AccountableLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their choice is not your fault, of course. But you may want to ask yourself why you are attracted to men that cheat.
There is probably some common thread that you can discover that will help you avoid that quality in a man the next time around.
Good luck!
2006-07-13 15:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police, LUCY listens to Nickelback!! hehe, purely kidding. I pay interest to a music with the help of Leona Lewis too, heheheheheh!! Message alert - nevertheless life - Iron Maiden (purely the spoken intro) Calls - Skullgrid with the help of Behold... the Arctopus Alarm - loopy prepare - Ozzy
2016-11-02 00:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your need to be loved. Don't know how your father loved you but this could be a sign. Usually daughters will be attracted to men that are like their fathers.
Both men are attracted to you physically and sexually, not emotionally. Sounds like if that need isn't met, they will look elsewhere.
2006-07-13 15:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone cheats on you of course you blame yourself. You need to remind yourself that it is their fault and I would dump them both and go out there and find someone that will not do that to you. There are guys out there that arent jerks.
2006-07-13 15:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go out have a good time and get a guy and have fun with him and show them guys how it fell to be cheat on
2006-07-13 15:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by anthony_rapp_fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a Sl*ut
2006-07-13 15:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need photo's to answer this one...
2006-07-13 15:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by Champ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋