I haven't called him for a week. I'm used to seeing him daily, and I really miss him. I'm depressed but have been strong and not called him. Refer to one of my past recent questions to see how I got to this conclusion that I shouldn't see him anymore; so you can understand my problem better. Almost all of the yahoo answerers told me to stop seeing him. Now, he has called me twice (personally, I was suprised it wasn't more) and I haven't picked up. It's hard. All I feel like doing is talking with him again, and going out to eat and drink or something, like we used to. I feel like soon, he will stop calling all together. Right now though, I know he is thinking of me too because he called at 9am. He probably thinks I'm mad, but I'm not. Is it so bad to have a best friend who is a guy? When I talk to him again, he'll probably be ticked off, because I've never acted like this before. I think I am also doing this to see how much he truly cares about me, and how much he'll call. I'm confused.
2006-07-13 15:15:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1) quit playing mind games.
2) if you're married and you have feelings for another man-that's the beginning on your way down the wrong path. This is the perfect opportunity to make your husband your best friend.
3) Talk to your guy friend and tell him you can't talk to him for a while (or ever again) cuz you have feelings for him. Or at least unitl your loins cool off
4) This is probably just a crush, but remember...YOU'RE MARRIED...
2006-07-13 15:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by Fox 34 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is not to post the question and look for answers here, you should talk to your friend and your husband about this situation, there is obsolutely sothiong wrong in missing a person from the other sex after marriage, i really dont understand what kind of feelings you have for him, is it just you want to go out and have coffee or go to movies with him?
if you feel like you should spend most of your time with your friend instead of with your husband, then there is a problem, it means that your not happy with your husband but with your friend, in that case, get a divorce, what ever it is do it soon.
2006-07-13 15:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by who is this 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
answer his call, but before you do, think what do you want to do? if you dont want to see him anymore, as you say, tell him that, if you belive your both mature enough to understand each others feelings, tell him why and how you feel and that you have decided not to keep seeing each other
if he is just a player, dont even tell him, make up something if you have to, if he is really a player, hes just out to sleep with you, sometimes take adavantage of other people and sounds to me like thats what hes doing. if you love your husband still, use you time to think about that and why you fell in love and whats missing from your relationshipa and how you can improve it, not about whats going on with this guy and what hes thinking if your mad or not.
whatever you are feeling towards your friend, love or infatuation, you have to make your choice soon
good luck
2006-07-13 15:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by MANGA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me relationships are particular, that is why i have not had to many. yet to narrate on your tale. very last three hundred and sixty 5 days I had an extremely good lady friend. she had all of it!. faster or later all of it ended although. she gave me a be conscious and it didnt say a lot, besides keeping she became sorry and that she loved "different" human beings. It fairly tore at me for the longest time. we stopped keeping hi contained in the halls, and that i purely did not care about something. i became depressed in the route of alotta stuff. i became stupid decrease back then cuz now i understand its no longer the accurate of the international. yet I nevertheless fairly loved her on the time. I purely by no potential were given the nerve to "attempt" to ask her out back. i became to afraid of the answer. What if she suggested no? then i ought to were even extra unhappy. So I purely allow it bypass. there have been different females, yet I nevertheless loved her and that i ought to nevertheless bypass out including her back then. That became very last three hundred and sixty 5 days although. purely those days although I requested out yet another woman that has been catching my eye. She suggested sure and we were going for 2 weeks!!. i'm over the different woman now, yet purely remember that there are different adult men accessible. purely stay existence. Nate appears like an mind-blowing guy! follow him for now, yet to fix this problem I propose that you purely attempt to construct your previous courting with Eric, the position you 2 were purely friends, then keep going from there and also you 2 may even get decrease back at the same time later on. for my section, i imagine he nevertheless likes you if he stares at you with unhappy eyes....Its what I used to do
2016-11-06 08:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, u should be happy. I would definetly try to stay w/ my husband. U kno work it out. If ur friend has feelings for u... then u have a decision to make. Don't cheat on ur husband b/c u don't really kno wut u want. (or at least that's wut it sounds like) Take it slow, and make the right choice. Good luck!
2006-07-13 15:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Manderz <3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hang out with him and ur husband. that is perfectly fine. dont detatch urself from him. go out for drinks with him and a bunch of other friends
2006-07-13 15:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by ╣♥╠ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you married the wrong man. IS it your family's fault?
I'm having a hard time finding the questions you want us to answer. Please, repost.
2006-07-13 15:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really wish I could help you here... I guess you just have to do what your heart tells you to do.
2006-07-13 15:30:53 · answer #8 · answered by Becky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems to me like you married the wrong man.
2006-07-13 15:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by Shelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋