My exboyfriend asked me to marry him a few days ago, and I shot him down. Well, now I realize he got me pregnant. I'm only 20 years old, I'm not ready to me a mother. I people's advice. And help. Can you give me some?
2006-07-13 14:53:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well first of all dont just marry him becasue you two are going to bring a child into this world. and second of allif you two broke up why did he ask you to marry him?? apparently something went wrong. you can rain this child by yourself you dont need a man to help you. sure let him be there for your child becasue it will be his too but you dont need to be married for him because remember marriage is "forever" well its suppost to be. you should only marry for love not for need. and please dont abort the baby. theres many places out there that can help you.
GOOD LUCK
2006-07-13 14:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
You need to decide what is best for you. If you are not ready to be a mother and commit the rest of your life to this child by all means seek alternatives. It would not be Fair to the child to have a mother who resents the fact that they were born.If you shot him down there had to be a reason, don't let being pregnant make you settle.. seek a professionals help to give you all your options.. GOOD LUCK
2006-07-13 14:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a little late in worrying about pregnancy now. Have the baby, ditch the boyfriend, (you were going to anyway!)
Babies don't make marriages work out honey.
2006-07-13 15:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm kinda sorry for u but kinda not because if you werent ready to make the comitment that sex can sometimes bring then you shouldnt hav been having it. i would suggest telling your parents and asking their advice, adoption?? also dont marry the guy out of guilt, itz unnecesary
2006-07-13 14:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by backdraft199@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not ready to be a mother, but your ready to have sex irresponsibly???
You got yourself here, not you can either take the easy way out, and get an abortion (by the way check out http://priestsforlife.org/resources/photosbyage/index.htm )or you can be responsible and be a mother to your child...
2006-07-13 14:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Taryn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should rethink things, do you love him and do you want to keep the baby. he has a right to know about the baby though. i was 19 when i had my son and i wouldnt change a thing. he and my 2yr old daughter are my life. children are wonderful little people.hope everything works out.
2006-07-13 14:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by little_red_neck_girl_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always adoption.
2006-07-13 14:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get an abortion and talk to him
2006-07-13 15:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by kay2angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋