2006-07-13 14:49:26 · 9 answers · asked by Brittany D 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I am 26 years old and happily married, but I just haven't been in the mood for sex and my husband has been getting his feelings hurt.
2006-07-13 14:55:20 · update #1
Why would anyone make fun of you for that? At least you acknowledge that there's a problem. Try thinking about where the problem stems from. Are you stressed? Has your diet changed? Do you have a lot on your mind? Are you uncomfortable with your body? Try setting the mood...light some candles...invite your hubby to take a bath (or shower) with you....try to get yourself in the mood for sex.
2006-07-13 15:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anything is wrong with you. Obviously you know what you should not be doing. Thats why your body reacts like it does when you try to make it do what you know you should not be doing. Relationships are fine. What you need is a commitment from another person (a male) who will after saying that he will be there through thick and thin for you proves it by marrying you. If you think that is not the way its done, then you can go watch Jerry Springer with all those huchies on tv wanting a paternaty test to determine the childs father. Then you will no longer be frigit.
2006-07-13 15:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by agcgartner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one thing to try. Have your partner take it slow. Lots of kisses, touching, no hurry. Don't drink alcohol, but if you must, just a small glass. See if you can stretch out the "foreplay" stage for a long time. Maybe that might help.
If nothing works, see a doctor.
2006-07-13 14:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by Linda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes frigidity is a problem of some girls like impotency in male. You may consult your doctor to get a positive result.
2006-07-13 15:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ovaga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two main things come to mind. A traumatic childhood experience relating to sex. Or simply the wrong partner. (you need to feel comfortable and trusting with the other person).
2006-07-13 14:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by Just Ducky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be medication or some other underlying medical problem. Could be previous trauma or some other psychological impediment.
Talk to your doctor. If he can't help, talk to a therapist. There are answers, you just have to look for them.
2006-07-13 14:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're trying to make yourself do something you are conflicted about. Don't do anything you feel uncomfortable with and make sure you are in a relationship with someone you trust.
2006-07-13 14:51:52 · answer #7 · answered by Helpful Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 07:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
its important because alot of younger girls confuse frigidty with nevousness
2006-07-13 14:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋