2006-07-13 14:45:33 · 14 answers · asked by ROSITA M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A divorce would definitely be underway. Assuming you married him because you're straight. You wouldn't marry another woman would you? Only this one might even be a bit worse, since he's obviously got insecurity and emotional problems as well.
I wish you luck!
2006-07-13 14:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by ♫☼♥ ≈ Debbi ≈ ♥☼♫ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dang unique question. If you truly love him/her, it is possible, if you are strong enough to stand by them and support them through this, if they do not intend to persue other people. That would be a huge sacrifice and change. Otherwise, you will need to say change or stay, I can't let you do both. Trouble is that if they stay, you will always wonder where their heart is. Good Luck if this is your predickament, because your life is going to change drastically!
2006-07-13 21:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jester 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to a counselor and get a good marriage counselor for the 2 of you. Try to understand him. He's a grown up, and though it may break your heart, he has the right to decide such things. But talking about it may resolve concerns and make him happier how he is.
2006-07-13 21:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Amber E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can handle the situation then support him. if you cant then you should leave him. nobody would expect you to stay with him, it would be a very uncomfortable for you both.
some couples do stay together but live different lives. i would suggest you both go to counselling and get all the support and information you can get before making any life changing decisions.
2006-07-13 22:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run girl, I like my man just the way he is. If he goes telling me he wants what I got I am running for the border. seriously tell your spouse how you feel about it. if he loves you he will at least consider your feelings.
2006-07-13 21:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
File for a divorce,
Why you may ask?
Getting your thing cut off is the definition of crazy!
2006-07-13 21:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, firstly, i'd totally lose it then after a while i'd think that all the hurt and thought about him or soon to b her is totally not worth it and then i'd work on movin on, although it would b hard but i'd do it an' then i'd live my life and then wait patiently on 'real' luv to find me.like i kno it will find u again.
2006-07-13 21:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by slims 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would really would be a shocker! I think i would stay friends with them ,but they would have to go out and make the life that they really want, because really you and the life that they have is nothing but a lie.
2006-07-13 22:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by gee-geeofmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him...he may be not your spouse anymore..
2006-07-13 21:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
laugh my *** off, get a lawyer, file for divorce and move the F out!
2006-07-13 21:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by Champ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋