2006-07-13 14:40:06 · 14 answers · asked by mamaac43 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
first thing to do is to ask him abt it in a calm manner...
if he denies and gives u reassurance then leave it alone... but if u feel very strongly abt it then be more alert... c if there r any changes in him... check his hp without him knowing... sometimes it could really be nothing and just our insecurities taking over us... sometimes i feel that way too abt my husband but i tell myself if a man wants to cheat he will do it anyway... and we cant stop it .... i will keep u in prayer and hope that it is all nothing... sometimes we just have to trust our man... being suspicious abt our man can also drive them further away frm us... so be cool alright...
2006-07-13 14:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by sexy 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to call him on it. Sit and talk and see what he says. I don't know how long you have been merried but all i can say is that past behavior is the best judge of furture behavior and if he has done it once then most likely he will do it again. Don't let him sweet talk you in to thinking that it is your doing that he is cheating. Hope that helped. and good luck
2006-07-13 21:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rent a car with dark windows and follow him,
take pictures.
look at his cell phone for odd numbers and call them.
check his phone records.
go to best buy and get a voice recorder, you might need it.
put up video cams in your house.
go to dontdatehimgirl.com and post his profile so others can be warned about him.
i feel sorry for you.
2006-07-13 21:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sori to understand about yr suitation..in the modern era,temptations, materialistic,careers,etc does affect someone families.if you still wanted this family to be with him,just bear with it & pretend nothing has happened.
alternatively if it is very unbearable to you,then file for a separation order first.
2006-07-13 21:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by Goosters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Tell him what makes you think he is and tell him openly what is bothering you and be prepared for the answer. Know in your mind what you are going to accept and what you won't accept.
2006-07-13 21:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by sweetkitty69t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private detective to spy on him.
2006-07-13 21:42:26 · answer #6 · answered by dan p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drive by his work or have someone he don't know follow him. I was suspicious of my husband once but it turned out to be nothing. she felt it, he didn't.
2006-07-13 21:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find proof before accusing him of anything.. then from there u have to decide if u can forgive him or not..
2006-07-13 21:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Cheaters.We can all use a little entertainment.
2006-07-13 21:48:01 · answer #9 · answered by Bubsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try hiring a private investigator.
2006-07-13 21:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by AirsoftMan425 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋