im 18 have a son and b/f
i always think about being with a girl, only a girl 1on1.,
i always rate girls when i see them, i love talking to them, i dont hang out with many id rather hang out with guys.
i duno its weird
could i be bisexual if ive never done anything with a girl?
ive made out with 2 girls when i was like 15 lol
2006-07-13 14:31:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes, you could be bi, its all so very complex...more than we like to accept, but when you have feelings like that its best to act on them...see what happens...that usually clears things up for me.
I found out i was gay this way.
lol there is soooo much research done on this topic....it could be something in your genes, pheramones being mixed up...lots of things
2006-07-13 14:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by confusedconfused 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I'm not a lesbian but I've also had experiences with girls I'm still a teen also. I always think about being with a girl and wondering what would it be like. I have a gay guy friend and a lesbian sister so I could just ask them. I wanted to be a lesbian but I read about it in the Bible and it say that that is a sin and bi/gays and lesbians all that is just perversion. i agree because why get done by a dildo when you can get done by the real thing? Answer that... My answer is perversion.
2006-07-13 14:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by mieka_brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be. It takes some people more time to realize it. I knew because I was attracted to women in a different way than other girls were. They're not just pretty or have nice hair, they are sexy and hot and turn me on, in the exact same way as a man. You don't have to have ever been with a woman to be bi. Just like you can know you are straight when you are still a virgin. It's all about attraction.
2006-07-13 16:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still very young. you have plenty of time. When the next chance comes up for you to be with another female try it. I'm bi. i started out dating guys. was with my first girl at 18. there were a couple more girls after that then i got married. twice. i was with a lady for 2 years and am with one now. It is not a peversion, its a way of life. if you find in that person the loveing and nurturing that your looking for what difference does it make if they are a man or woman. but like i said if you do find someone that interests you go for it. what's it gonna hurt. you try and its right great you try and it's wrong oh well now you know
2006-07-13 14:51:36 · answer #4 · answered by Teri D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, dearie. You could be what I call "bi-curious". There's nothing wrong with that. Personally, I knew I was bisexual when I was in the 6th grade. It felt weird at first, but as I got older, I felt comfortable in my own skin. I have two wonderful children and my sweetie understands me. But..if you're in a comitted relationship, stay that way! Don't mess up a good thing just because you "think" you're bi or gay. But have a heart to heart with your man, and go from there. Best of luck to you, my dear.
2006-07-13 15:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...I started having feelings for girls when I was 13. I really liked this one girl in my middle school, then I got to high school and just fell head over heels for a junior (she graduated last June). I kept wanting to deny it and say that I was straight, but after I turned 16 I realized that I couldn't control my feelings, and I couldn't stop myself for feeling certain ways for certain people. I'm still attracted to guys, but I'm also attracted to girls, as well. It's weird. I've never acted on my feelings, so I've never gone out with, kissed, or gone any further with a girl, which I would like to do.
You may very well be bisexual, but don't be too eager to start labeling yourself.
Buona fortuna!
2006-07-13 14:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some say you should listen to your heart, but I just "watched" my imagination, shall we say. Where your (waking) mind wanders is usually where you want to be.
As long as I can remember, my erotic imagination centered on males. That was strange at first, because I understood I "should" fantasize about females, but by the time I was 12 I knew I was gay.
2006-07-13 16:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by fall2005buseng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's different for everyone. Some people know they're gay/bi all their lives. Some don't know untill later. Just remember, your sexual orientation is never set in stone.
2006-07-14 03:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by jill45690 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't really know I was a gay guy until the fireworks went off.
2006-07-13 15:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know that your bi, when you want to be with men and wemon in a relationship, your a lesbian wen you only want to be with girls,.
you very well could be bi, but its a personal thing, noone can confirm it.
2006-07-13 14:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋