Okay so i had a best friend, who i was friends with for about 5 years or so. But she's changed alot(in a bad way) She lies,only cares about herself, and acts kina whorish. When i tried to talk to her she cursed at me and now she hates me. Then i just decided that i dont want to be associated with her. But i miss her soo much but i dont know how to talk to her, What should i say to her so we can be friends again but her not being a b**** anymore???
2006-07-13 14:27:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have a lot of thinking to do ...
I'm suggesting that you consider each of the following articles --along with the Scriptures-- and think about how what they each say applies to the situation you have described :
Why Am I Drawn to the Wrong People?:
~ What is Behind the Attraction?
~ The Role of Family
~ Other Influences
~~ The media can influence our concept of an ideal friend
~ The Power of Friendship
http://www.watchtower.org/library/g/2005/7/22a/article_01.htm
How to Make REAL Friends :
... We All Need Friends
... Satisfying Our Hunger for Friendship
... Good Friends - Bad Friends
... A Note to Parents
http://www.watchtower.org/library/g/2004/12/8/article_01.htm
Ethical Decisions
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2004/12/1/article_01.htm
Common Sense—Why So Uncommon?
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2005/5/15a/article_01.htm
Will ALL People EVER Love One Another? :
... Love of Neighbor Has Grown Cold
... Love of Neighbor - A Reality
... When ALL People WILL Love One Another
http://www.watchtower.org/library/kn35/article_01.htm
Last, but certainly not least ...
"Make Sure of All things; Hold Fast to what is Fine!" (1Th5:21)
2006-07-18 17:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As you get older, people change, and good friends sometimes become people you can't stand. Even though it's hard, it sounds like you should move on, and find some better friends. I know this first hand, I had some good friends in high school that went all thug on me, and I wasn't into that. It hurt, but I moved on, and found better friends. I'm still very close to the newer friends that I have, and they have been great, I don't regret it for a minute. Move on, and find someone who wants to be your friend.
Good luck.
2006-07-13 21:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by natex14 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends come and friends go, if u wanna b treatd like a ***** by a ***** then go ahead, but dnt giv up on u juz 2 be her friend I had a friend like that and i had 2 learn 2 leave her alone or she cood get me in trooble and make me lose the essence of who i am, so my advice juz try 2 make new friends that will respect u and b ur friend cuz if ur a good friend u dnt deserve 2 b treatd like that!!!
2006-07-13 21:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by x0x0_zEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting your time. You need to look in the mirror at yourself and try to figure out why you would spend so much time trying to make this person your friend? Are you that desperate??? She does not value you.....degrades you....lies to you.....and is a whore. Grow up and move on!
2006-07-13 21:33:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. Strait up. Life is too short to play head gamesand beat around the bush. Try bringing up good memories when you 2 would hang out.
2006-07-13 21:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change as they grow because of the experiences in their lives... maybe your friend have some bad experience and she doesn't know how to tell you or maybe she have some friends that influence here that way...
yes, it is bad to lose a best friend..
try to talk to her, tell her you missed her company - listen and read her - it your old friend is no longer there, then it is time to move one.
2006-07-13 21:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by crissimayo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With friends like that you sure dont need enemies. I say look for new friends. Why would you want a friend that curses you???
2006-07-13 21:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be a friendship that you have outgrown - unfortunately it does happen. Is there something else going on that you don't know about or any other way of finding out. She may have a problem that she doesn't know how to handle. Drugs?
2006-07-13 21:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by traceylolanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is definitely sending out possible arning signs of an emotional problem I suggest that you continue being her friend however it would be nice for you to find some other friends who treat you better
2006-07-13 21:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by Peace, Love, Gun<3☎ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do. Tell her once she becomes a regular human being again, you will be willing to talk to her, but until then you want her to not have anything to do with you.
2006-07-13 21:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by llywarch_dindaethwy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋