Ive been married for almost ten yrs now and my hubby didnt ask me for SEX...For 5 months no SEX at all! we spoke about this already and he said he just tired ;o(... is this normal? i'm only 28, 36-26-36, 105lbs and i have 2 lovely kids... i always call him at the office evryday, evry minute, he's always there...but when we were together we are happy, we sleep in 5 star hotel , out of town, we laugh stuff like that but i really dont understand why? Still NO sex! i got plenty of super sexy lingerie but still nothing happen ;o(... Now im thinking of cheating ....
is this bad or good? please this is not a joke... I really need your advice thanks
2006-07-13 14:25:04 · 13 answers · asked by pretty_21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do not cheat. Get yourself a toy and when he is ready and not so tired anymore enjoy it. You say that everything else is good so why take the chance and mess things up? It May sound repulsive well that's what I thought when I got my first one but it sure did help. Good luck.
2006-07-13 14:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a sanctuary between you nad your husband. Once you go outside those vows the foundation is gone. Think about what you are saying, betraying the man that gave you two lovely kids! For what? a wet ***. Girl you can wet your own ***. Don't be no fool either, do you think he may have strayed, since it has been so long? Look into that. Yeah I thought my stuff was tight boy was i wrong. Your body dimensions have nothing to do with it. You should take these feelings to your HUSBAND and resolve them before you break-up your home. Think about how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Then if finds out and puts you out was it all worth it? I will tell you now, No! Talk to your HUSBAND, do not seek solice in the arms of another man.
Oh, and one more thing, if he did that to you would you be able to live with seeing him day after day imaging him all over someone else the way he is allover you? the touch the kiss, the feel the passion. That is more than any one woman take or man.
Girl do not be depressed, put the kids tobed early call a sitter plan anevening out just you and him, and glance into each others eyes without a word and feel the passion come flowing back then act on those feelings. And always remember to take it to the LORD in prayer. God Bless YOU and yours.
2006-07-13 15:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by Precious1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relies upon what you advise and that i'm guessing video games. dishonest in a recreation is your call no matter if you imagine you want to or not, yet once you're playing a information superhighway recreation or a recreation by ability of Xbox stay or some thing like that then you truthfully ought to truthfully not cheat it purely isn't honest.
2016-11-02 00:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO dont cheat.. geeze.. sounds to me other then ur sex life u have a good relationship with your husband.. it very well could be that he has a low testosterone level that could make him not desire sex.. or he could just be really depressed and u dont know it.. your willing to risk ur husband, your kids, your family everything u know .. for sex with a stranger??????? No.. go to the doctors get him checked out.. take him to counseling.. anything but cheat on him.. i Know it sucks being on the wanting , needing end.. but there has to be a better way to deal with this then cheating on him ...
2006-07-13 14:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds really tough maybe there is someone on the side for him and there is call forward to a cell ;;;;try professional help ''''''this is not normal men normally crave woman all the time another ? is he gay and in the closet? hope you find a answer...but don't cheat cause the problem may not be that bad and if you cheat then your whole family will be torn......
2006-07-13 14:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would meaningless sex actually help this situation? I somehow doubt it. Why don't you try communicating with your husband? I've heard it sometimes works. Not always, but it's worth a try before you run out and have a cheap night of sex.
2006-07-13 14:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.King 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guilt would eat you up, and a meaningless fling just isn't worth it.
If you're satisfied in all other areas, maybe he needs to be aroused, either with games or movies. Or possibly get creative and do something totally out of character for you to get his attention, such as a strip tease or initiating something yourself to get him aroused.
2006-07-13 14:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by ♫☼♥ ≈ Debbi ≈ ♥☼♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try other avenues first. It might be that he just has a low sex drive. Couples counseling might be a good next step. Cheating is not a solution, though.
2006-07-13 14:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh, cheating is BAD! It's really stupid of you to think of cheating on your husband just because you're not getting any. If you have any shred of intelligence, you should sit down with your husband, and tell him how you feel and ask him why he hasn't been intimate with you. Suggest marital counseling. Try getting closer with your husband rather than considering something that could really mess up your life, and your husband's, not to mention your children!
2006-07-13 14:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel tell him that your thinking of cheating on him because you really need him that will get his attention if it doesn't then cheat.
2006-07-13 14:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by Sarita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋