Six years and three kids. He says he loves me but needs his space and no matter how hard I try to prove to him how much I love him he continues to walk in and out........Rumors have it that he is seeing another girl but I do not have hard proof!
2006-07-13 14:20:08 · 4 answers · asked by lttlbt22 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let him go.
You deserve to have a mature relationship, which includes his telling you when & where he will go/has been, not in mind-numbing detaiul, but enough that you know, in the same way that you would tell him where you would go.
From the limited amount of information you have provided it does not sound like a good, stable, mature relationship.
You don't have three kids, you have four: three normal kids and a sullen teenage boy.
And forget 'proof'. A mature person doesn't stoop to these theatricalities unless there is a lot of alimony at stake.
2006-07-13 14:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by kerangoumar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a brute for punishment sweetie. I would say this means that he has never married you in the six years and having his children? No matter, he has done the walking in out of your life several times before and doubtful it will stop. Only saying what had happened to me and we were married, is he would break up or separate from me to go play the field and come home, no matter how much I loved and no matter what I did to show him I did. It got worse every time I would let him come back. But someday you will have enough of it. Hopefully not after wasting to many years on him. If you really wanted to know for sure if he is seeing someone else you could hire a private detective. I don't know about you but not only is it painful but fearful of what disease he may bring home to you. I wish you the very best.
2006-07-13 21:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is try to move on. If that doesn't work hope he wakes up and realizes what he had with you. Become a pest in EVERY relationship he tries to start. Eventually no one else will have him and he will have to come home to you. If he really loves you it won't take long.
2006-07-13 21:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Please.....not another one of you!!! Yeah, right......he sure demonstrates that he "loves" you. Will you stop being so immature and stupid??? Give him his "space" and get a better life.....stop wasting it on a looser. Oh, yeah.......make sure you get real nice child support! You are enabling him to treat you with disrespect as you allow him to "walk in and out". Again, stop whining and complaining and make your life bettter.....DUH!!!!
2006-07-13 21:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋