felt so angry you could just break something?
I go nuts coz my husband always puts his family first, and kinda ignores ours. He does anything and everything his sister and dad wants, but when I want something or need something -- he is already doing something for them. What should I do?
2006-07-13 13:37:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Break something over his head......lol......just kidding. Yes, I have definately gotten that angry before......have you tried talking to him about it? Not about breaking stuff, but about his priorities (or lack of)?
2006-07-13 14:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I have felt like breaking things. But I do know I don't want to break it and if I did, I would feel terrible!
But that is what usually happens. The shoe maker keeps everyone in shoes in the town except his own family. The plumber keeps everyone else's pipes going but he has clogged pipes at home. The swing maker makes swings for everyone else, but he never has a swing he makes himself on his swing set. Well you get the drift. But it's not right. It shouldn't be that way!
2006-07-13 21:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I so feel for ya. I have been in this situation before and all I can say is try not to break anything important, do not talk bad about his family, try to understand and if all else fails tell him to marry his sister. LOL! Good Luck and God Bless.
2006-07-14 14:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by bluskygreengrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him tell him how you feel.Let him know that his family (you and the kids) come first.If he can't understand then go on strike.Let him cook his own meals,wash his own clothes,and whatever else you feel.If his tune still don't change tell him to marry his dad and sister.
2006-07-13 20:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to make a choice of them or you. You are his wife so you are number 1. If he doesn't understand that, you have a bigger problem than you thought.
2006-07-13 20:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ive been that angry before i threw an electric beater one time when i was so mad lol
2006-07-13 20:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him, but for goodness sake dont insult his family, its like they are precious to him so dont wind him up!
2006-07-13 20:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by whatnoname? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have. There's several large holes in the wall becuase i got that mad. Tell him ur problem
2006-07-13 22:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by smc s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋