IF you had a mother-in-law that treated you like $hit, but has to depend on you for everything in her oxygen needed life or would you step on her cord and end your misery.My hubby knows but is not doing a damn thing, and if she gives me one more look and act shitty towards me, the next time she needs her oxyegen or asthma inhaler, I feel so bad for her...NOT. Am I wrong for thinking this way and wanting to do this to her...PLEASE HELP. I WILL Explain in detail if someone wants to know.
2006-07-13 13:35:41 · 20 answers · asked by VivaciousandSexy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I've spoken to him and NADA. I want to leave but I hate to leave my three kids. I'm not working, because I was laid off of my job and currently looking for a new one...
2006-07-13 13:39:35 · update #1
she has congestive heart failure, asthma, diabetes and etc...
2006-07-13 13:43:36 · update #2
You need to talk to your husband and have him deal with your MIL. Tell him you aren't going to take care of her if she treats you like dirt. Make her do for herself, just because she has asthma doesn't mean she can't take care of herself.
2006-07-13 13:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes at one time I had that type of Mother-IN-Law, My first marriage, But HATS OFF TO YOU for even doing so much for her, And No GOD DON'T LIKE UGLY, She is Dieing you are not, one day she will be gone, SO There is always a beginning to every Trail this is what you are going through this is your TEST, I will PRAY FOR YOU, LOL and just Know that your Trial will END SOON. Mother-In-Law is just trying to get you to do something Ugly because she really don't want you caring for her. SEE she just SICK and not feeling well, IT WILL BE OK, TRY TO HANG IN THERE, Guess what I told my Mom that if she ever treat me bad when she gets sick/OLD, I told her that I would put something in her TEA, LOL the rest of the family would wounder why is she sleeping so much, LOL, I am Prepared. LOL
2006-07-13 13:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by sweettoni37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ease up first let me say to you stand strong and don't lose your self in the process, I think your mother in law is acting this way for attention some where through out her life she wanted to be happy like you and her son are but did not get the chance. Sometimes people seek help the wrong way by destroying something good like yourself, try talking with her and maybe buying her something to make her feel loved, remember we are only here on this earth for a short period of time so live, love and enjoy. And don't forget to PARYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
2006-07-13 13:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront your husband and give him an ultimatum: either he sticks up for you or you leave. Some men are total wimps around their mothers - do you really want to spend the rest of your life with a whiny cry-baby instead of a REAL man???
2006-07-13 13:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not alone. there are many scorned daughters in law out there feeling your pain. I personally moved out of state-1300 miles away so that she would not have the opportunity to give me grief. we have gotten along better ever since. i know its a bit dramatic and may be a little unrealistic but people have been known to do some crazy things...
2006-07-13 13:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by jenniferscott1974 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should take it as you pity her so that you would just "give in", if that could help to make u feel better. No point on making the relationship worst as that is just going to put yr husband "in the middle". If you love him, love his family too.
life is so short.. take it easy and.. good luck!
2006-07-13 13:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by prawn_headed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother in law is probably disatisfied and unhappy with herself and her own life. Don't take it personally. If you are the only caretaker, have someone else come in and help her once in awhile so that you can get relief.
Please continue to be your kind sweet self. You will not regret it Life is so short.
2006-07-13 13:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lynda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God, it's tempting, isn't it? Not wrong to think that or want to do it. JUST DON'T! Is that ***** worth going to prison for? Maybe you should tell your husband to get her oxygen and inhaler because you've had it. Good luck!
2006-07-13 13:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you stop playing nurse with that attitude, or you just may kill her by ignoring her. You will have a hard time living with yourself if that happens. Hire a nurse and have her cared for, or better yet, put her into a hospice. OR, have your husband take care of her..or other kids of hers???? Please don't make with the Martyr stuff...it isn't becoming.
2006-07-13 13:38:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we have all had one of those. thank the lord my mother-in-law only lasted a few months and she was never around. she was the weirdest person, fat as hell, and a big liar, and a HORRIBLE mother!!! maybe that's why my marriage didnt last to her son, bc she did not raise him right at all, and he doesnt know how to treat women, or ppl at all in his case!
2006-07-13 13:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by Kasey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋