I think marriage is stupid. You have to pay to get married and pay to seperate, so why not just stay boyfriend and girlfriend till we get sick of each other, then seperate without all the hassle of divorce? If we are meant to be, we should be able to be together forever without marriage.
2006-07-13 13:31:34 · 17 answers · asked by mastersac 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
tell her to pack her bags and not let the door hit her in the as* on the way out
2006-07-13 13:36:14 · answer #1 · answered by Evil Scorpion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. If she loves you and is content being your girlfriend or roomie without the paperwork of marriage, then the issue of marriage at this time should be dropped.
If she wants a man that will be her husband and have a family with her, tell her you understand and split. She deserves to get what she wants just as much as you deserve to have what you want. Not agreeing on this issue means that neither of you is right for the other and you both deserve to find the person that is right for you.
2006-07-13 13:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by neona807 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well never be forced into a marriage. Ask her if she is willing to walk away from you forever. Tell her marriage is not a game and you are not ready, you do not know if you ever will be. You both can move on still remaining as friends you know.
2006-07-13 13:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i understand what ur saying, and i kinda feel the same way....but going through a marriage ceremony is the way to show the world and ur friends and family that u are so commented and have faith in this relationship, that u are willing to do anything to prove it, to celebrate it, and to seal it with the ceremony, so that it is no longer a relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, but now a marriage for a husband and wife.
2006-07-13 13:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by hippie chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants commitment, you do not. This is not a circumstance on which you can compromise. You need a woman who feels as you do about marriage, and your current girlfriend needs a man who wants to be married. Anything else for either of you will be a disaster!
2006-07-13 13:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by woman of faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you never want to marry then dont!!! if she is hell bent on being married, then tell her. Let her find someone else to marry. But be careful because if you love her, this may be a delicate situation. Just always be honest with her, you will both be better off in the long run!!!
Good luck!
2006-07-13 13:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by candi girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pls dont upload her!!! it isn't necessary for her to be further to ur account. she will finally end up blowin all ur troublesome earned money on textile issues will may reason serious damage to yalls courting. Shes already goin through ur wallet and takin money. Its extra valuable for u to stroll out of this courting than to furnish into this ultimatum. U deserve someone extra valuable, she is clearly a gold digger!!
2016-11-02 00:42:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is a committment
you have to pay to get married and pay to separate
no woman in her right mind would have sex with a man who can leave her in trouble at any moment with no problems for him
if you are unable to make a formal committment
to risk something
why should she risk anything
grow up
2006-07-13 13:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by enginerd 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your girl friend should stop threataning to leave, and do it. Because you don't care about her enough to spend a little money on some thing that would mean alot to her. Marriage means alot to some people. im sorry it doesn't to you.
2006-07-13 13:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well change you rmind and get married. Living like this you are leading a life of nothing more than an animal...o think about it. what if she finds someone really attractive and richer than you...may be he will propose her...than don't regret loosing her
2006-07-13 13:36:37 · answer #10 · answered by Dusky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her about it. Ask her what she wants to do about the situation and tell her how you feel (be a gentleman) and maybe you guys can work it out. If this doesn't work then maybe you guys weren't meant to be together.
2006-07-13 13:47:17 · answer #11 · answered by dabugster20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋