we both are so in love, he wants me bad, and i want him badder, we both are married, but i love him, what are we do to, im ready to leave myhusband of 4 years, he is not ready to leave his wife of 17 years, please help with any advice.
2006-07-13 13:25:31 · 12 answers · asked by RHONDA S 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
If he doesn't want to leave his wife, there's not much more you can do. You guys can't cheat on your spouses, that is wrong. Be an adult and talk to him about it.
2006-07-13 13:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by corbeyelise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is so hard. Seriously, make sure the feelings aren't just infatuation or those "I want what I can't have" emotions. I feel for you hon, I've been in a similar situation and I totally understand. Just don't pressure him. Let him be ready to leave without feeling like he has to. I seriously think you should leave your husband before getting involved in another relationship. Easier said than done I know!!!!! I sure wish you luck, I really really do. Things like this are so hard, and everyone jumps to be judgemental and negative about situations like this. Just keep your head up and believe in yourself!!! :)
Edited to add:
Do what makes YOU happy!!! Life is way too short to just settle. Don't live your life where you will look back and have regrets. Been there done that. Too bad I can't find a time machine to take me back and change things. Lol!!!!
2006-07-13 20:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by outlawsister1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS HAPPEND TO ME!! I FEEL IN LOVE W. A FRIEND AND I HAD A BOYFRIEND OF 6 YEARS. I LEFT MY MAN FOR THIS PERSON . AND AFTER IT WASENT EXCITING ( NAUGHTY ) ANYMORE- IT TOTALY KILLED IT. - THESE FEELINGSUR HAVING ARE PROB ALOT W. THE AFFAIR U ARE HAVING. I WOLD SAY NOT TO LEAVE UR MAN B.C.U WILL REGRET IT WHEN THIS OTHER GUY IS NOT FUN ANYMORE B.C. ITS NOT HOT. . . LUST MAKES US FEEL SOO GOOD, BUT WHEN ITS YOURS. FEELINGS ARE NOT THE SAME. TRUST ME! ( RUN AWAY W. HIM FOR A WEEK AND SEE IF U STILL LOVE HIM )
2006-07-13 20:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by MISS PIMPIN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and he love you talk it out but remember you don't wont to hurt any one and specially if you have kids . But i feel that if his not happy and you are not either go for it like your life to the fullest be happy and wish you luck .
2006-07-13 20:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by ELIZABETH L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i really luv him do a clossure come 2 an agreement.if hes cute 2
2006-07-13 20:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jannette S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All 4 of you talk it over, wish for the best...
2006-07-13 20:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by Leslie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a no win situation. Think everything through be for you make any decisions. good luck.
2006-07-13 20:29:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only be with the person who you truly love.tell him that and he will probably think"well im married to my wife,theres no love in that"and then he will dump her and come to you!!!
2006-07-13 20:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET HIM!! LEAVE THE AREA!! FORGET ABOUT HIM!! ESPECIALY IF HE HAS KIDS. Kids go mental when there parents seperate. They are never normal after that.
2006-07-13 22:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by John Shmoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage counseling for all involved.
2006-07-13 20:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋