you thought you would be at this point in your life? i realized today that i am so buisy living my life that i dont take the time to realy see how i am living it, to know if i am happy with it , or not tottaly happy with it. i have gotten most of what i wanted but at the same time i never thought that i would get any of it. i always wanted to be married by time i was 25 and i got it, never thought i would, i always wanted to be a stay at home wife, mother, well i am the stay at home wife still working on the mother part. and i never thought that i would get that either in todays world. so tell me how do you feel about your life right now, are you where you thought you would be? are you happy with what you have?
2006-07-13 13:11:49 · 9 answers · asked by Blonds Rock 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ya even though i am getting alot of things i have always wanted, make no mistake i have realy had to work for them and wait for them. its worth it when you get those things. there are still some things i am working on to help get me exactly where i feel i should be. i still want to work so i am looking for something i can do at home part time or full time. i guess we all get there its just a timing thing?
2006-07-13 13:28:34 · update #1
I am 41 and finally where I always wanted to be!! I had always dreamed of having an awesome husband that loves, respects, and cherishes me (I finally have that in my fiance), have my own home (finally getting that), and have children (I helped my ex husband to raise his 2 kids and my fiance has 3 teen girls but couldn't have my own kids). I am finally super happy with my life and how it is going and with the mate I have chosen to be with (my ex husband is a total loser, liar, cheater, abuser, drug user/abuser, etc). I knew that I would get here someday, but just wasn't sure when.
2006-07-13 13:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by honey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm not. I always thought I'd be working in one job a long time. I've never kept a job very long most of the jobs I had were temp- including one that was oncall. ALways thought I'd have a job by now and married by the time I was 30. Always thought I'd be father, by the time I was 40. But I'm 42, still single and still a virgin. Been engaed twice, and both engagements self desrtucted. But only the first one should have. I'm still looking for a new job. But I am living alone with my cat, I do drive and I do cook and bake.
2006-07-13 20:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a stay at home mother and pretty content. This is what I always thought I would be. I would like to be better off financially but sometimes I don't think anyone is happy about their finances.
2006-07-13 20:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by Suzanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not. Things really haven't turned out the way I thought they would. Gratefully even though some not so good stuff has happened some of the best things have happened to me as well. Like I met, who I believe to be the love of my life, and I never thought that would happen until years and i mean YEARS to come. Good Luck to you and your husband and to your future family!
2006-07-13 20:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by Bast 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, well I didn't get to that stage yet. But it is important to feel happy with yourself wherever you are. I am happy with my life the way I am now. However, there is always room for improvement. Afterall, thats why we are living, to constantly strive to be a better person.
2006-07-13 20:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by twingal01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are lot things people offer to make you happy, but you're never satisfied. there is one one place i could help you though, to get the answers you're looking for or to fill that emptiness, the Bilble?? may be! if you like to talk more on this, i could show you few tips on "Purpose Driven Life" (probably you've head it) I've seen and experienced the benefits on knowing truths on this issue.
2006-07-13 23:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by Zera I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am happy with the family part of my life, but the rest of it i wish i would have paid more attention in school to get a better career. i wish i hadn't married right out of high school. am glad i divorced a year later. It really is like you wake up one day and say to yourself "oh my god i am so and so old".
2006-07-13 20:17:03 · answer #7 · answered by collins mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 6 years into my marriage w/ kiddies. happy? yeah, i really am. i never wanted to get married.
2006-07-13 20:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by fricatease 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're almost there. When you have your kids, you will be given the rest of your answers! *Hang in there, Girl*
2006-07-13 20:16:26 · answer #9 · answered by OnTheShortList 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋