2006-07-13 12:50:10 · 16 answers · asked by purplebird 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
XXXXXXXXXX I think it means you're not giving your husband 100% of your love which he deserves. Don't you? XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-13 12:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not necessarily. Your first love reminds you of a time when your life was simpler and probably better. If you are at a time in your marriage that is experiencing some trying times , you are subconscientously wishing you could return to the time period when your first love was there as you want a amn in your life so you dont go farther back. We all get to a point in our lives where we wonder is this all? and start reminiscing about times when we had it made, no worries, no kids, etc. Those times were when we had our most memorable times and lots of fun, but unfortunately life and time wont let us stay there and we move on to whatever. Life is what we make of it and someday in the future you just might reminisce about these days as being the good old days. Think about this and things should look a little different. good luck
2006-07-13 13:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never forget your first love. I'm forty and find myself thinking about my first love when I was sixteen!!!!! I think it's fine as long as it's not effecting your happiness with your hubby. Remeber - there was a reason you and you ex broke up. Also remember that the grass is always greener. If you were married to him right now you'd probably have a whole set of different issues than you do with your hubby.
2006-07-13 13:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if a women still thinks about an old boy friend , now that she is married to another guy for a long time is because sex was better with the first boyfriend. You like everything about your husband but probably still like making love with your first boyfriend better.
2006-07-13 12:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by Dejan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. It means you are being unfaithful to your husband. If he isn't the only man you want to be with, then why did you marry him. You have been lieing to him all this time. Your are a disgrace! Confess to him that you are always thinking about this other guy and that you always have. Then admit that you have been living a lie! At this point you will probably be free to go after your ex and see if he is really who you remember. Probably he isn't and then you will spend all your time thinking about your ex-husband.
See how tricky lieing can be? You are a liar and a cheat.
2006-07-13 13:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been told that you never forget your first love, but that doesn't mean you love both. You actually love your spouse and what I think, is that your remembering this first person, because the both do somewhat similar things (but that is my thought if it's not that way okay then).
2006-07-13 12:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by Allyson B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are always going to have feelings for your first love, but doesn't mean that you don't love the person you are married to just the same or even more. If you don't love your partner then I would say that you shouldn't be together. It just wouldn't be fair to either of you.
2006-07-13 12:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by Shortcake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should seek counseling. If this is interfering with your marriage it is a problem.
Many of us have a soft spot in our hearts for our first love, but you need to be able to put reality first. Soemtimes our memories of our first love are romanticised and not realistic. You can still have fond memories of that time in your life, but you need to face your real life and your husband deserves your love and attention.
2006-07-13 12:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can certainly still feel things for your first love. But obsessing over that person could mean something is lacking in your current relationship (I'm not saying that you are).
2006-07-13 12:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by blueskies7890 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun ive been married 22 yrs and love my wife...but there are times i still think about my old girlfriend...Yes and i still do love her...But my wife comes first over anything else....But if she came to me for help i would still to this day help her
2006-07-13 12:53:48 · answer #10 · answered by maddog277 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i mean who forgets thier first love??? you'll always think about him. just like you'll always think about your first best friend of the first time you had sex it will always be there no matter what. it doesnt mean that you love your ex boy friend more then your husband. or that you should divorce him b/c of it i still remember my first boyfriend and i love my current boyfriend yes and i still think about my ex but he will always be there in the back of my mind b/c he was my first.
2006-07-13 12:57:08 · answer #11 · answered by baby_gurlie_9204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋