Are people judgemental? Or is it my brain telling me so?

Question

Do the people who surround you judgmental. I feel that many people observe me, judge me, criticize me, see what I have and don't have all the time, but then I think "People can't be that mean" but in the end of the day I think people are.

Answer 1

Of course people are judgemental, and should be. How else do you make judgements on how best to lead your life?

People have to judge what kind of people they want in their lives, how thehy want spend their time, what behaviours they are OK with and what they will not tolerate -- everyone SHOULD do this, the only people that do not are those that don't know they are valuable and should judge what is in their best interest, or people without morals who don't care about who they spend time with, what they or others do...

So just accept the fact that people do / and should judge you and then focus on yourself and what yo uneed to be doing so that people that you respect will judge you to also be respectful.

Best of luck :)

Answer 2

Yes they are.

The world today is a very strange place.

The 'trick' is to have peace within yourself even in these troublous times.

No doubt among some, that'll raise their ire a wee bit more!

Read the book.

I think you know which one I mean.

It has a beautiful ending few books offer.

You experience it yourself.

Leave the rest to what they think whatever life they may have.

I don't have the patience now but sometimes, in a colder blood think:

They are to be pitied.

Given the times, the feeling doesn't come often. Hope this helps.

Answer 3

Yes, people make judgments about those around them all the time.

Perhaps you should think about why you really care what they think?

The attitude I have is that people need to work hard to impress me--not the other way around. Try it on and see if it works for you.

Answer 4

People will be people ,you have to be you and have a good outlook about yourself.People do judge and this Is an old saying(when someone points a finger at you remember they have three fingers pointing back at them)

I hope this helps you,and you sound like a careing person I hope this saying helps you as It has helped me

Answer 5

Ah lovey..if you only knew how little other people really thought of you..they are too busy thinking exactly the same thing you are..Don't sweat it. So long as you aren't doing anything to intentionally hurt anyone else just move along and do your own thing. Relax.

Answer 6

Yes they r especially when they find someone sensitive like u who listens to what they say. Just don't listen to everyone u can think about yr close ones opinions but don't give a damn about everybody else's opinion as long as it's right & as long as u feel ok about it. I think yr brain is paying to much attention to those ppl.

Answer 7

I have been around for a long time, but I have noticed that people have changed a great deal.There isn't a middle group any longer. People are either very kind or downright nasty.

Answer 8

People are judgmental, and in the work place it can be dog eat dog. If you are overly concerned about it , maybe you should see a councilor.

Answer 9

People are inherently judgmental, everyone, and it is probably a survival mechanism from our past relatives. When we see a thing we want to categorize it, make it familiar to other things that we have already categorized.

Answer 10

People are mean and cruel, don't let them get to u. It sucks but thats how things are, I learned the hard way. But put it this way if u let people get to u then u will never be happy. Screw everyone!!!! Just be yourself, and as long as you're being true to who u are, don't let any put u down.