My girlfriend did me wrong which cause us to break up. But we got back together. We are working on building our trust back up and its going great. My only problem is that now my female bestfriends(which are like my sisters) don't trust her. I feel like my life is between songs "so what" by ciara, "pulling me back" by chingy. and "torn" by letoya luckett. So should side with my sisters or stay with my girlfriend that started off as one of those sisters???
2006-07-13 11:23:08 · 11 answers · asked by Frankie D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do your girlfriend an immense favor and gift her with your eternal absence. If you're putting your pseudo-sisters in a higher level of influence that your girlfriend, then you really didn't get back with her at all, but just led her to believe you did. Cut her free and let her find someone more endearing.
2006-07-13 11:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask the best friends why they don't trust her? You shouldn't just take their side on it. Do you trust her? Do you want to trust her? A relationship is not gone to work if there's a trust issue. You've got to trust her if you two are gone to be together. Forget the songs, how do you really feel about her? The songs are nice, the bestfriends are nice too. But what about you? What do you want? Trust? And by the way your bestfriends aren't in the relationship you are.
2006-07-13 11:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by delawaregirl83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she did you wrong, you shouldn't have taken her back and your friends and family saw how much she hurt you the first time and don't want to see that happen to you again, and they obviously haven't forgiven her for breaking your heart the first time. You also say that your girlfriend was friends with the others (they may know other things about her that you don't, and this may also be a reason they are unforgiving.) If you stay with her, tell your friends that is our decision and you will stay with it and you don't want to hear their opinions on the matter, and just make sure you don't make plans for everyone to do things together.
2006-07-13 11:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by jtj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im telling Simone on you! But as one of the sisters I say you should side with us. Now we have been threw this a million times. You are a well rounded dude. You are smart, talented, and a true gentlemen. You don't need someone who is going to lie and cheat on you you to good for that bro I listen to y'all about P so listen to us. we only want whats best for you and she ain't it trust - Ya Lil sister TIP
2006-07-14 09:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by Tip :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes family can see things we can't. Also, it is inadvisable to share your relationship problems with your family...it will frequently come back to bite you (as you now know)....but if you are really into this girl, then stick to your guns...it is your choice, not theirs. More power to ya.
2006-07-13 12:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by riverhawthorne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should sit down and have a talk with your "sisters" and let them know what is going on with you and your girl. let them know that you two are working on getting back to where you were before. and let them know that you value their views about her but you have to learn on your own... you can't let other people run your relationship!
2006-07-13 11:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by retro_stargurl24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go with with your heart is telling you!!!!!!!
Those are very true words i have learned to live by them since they were told to me when i went threw your situation!
How old are you? and how long has this relationship been?
Feel free to contact me if you think i can help more!
2006-07-13 11:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who have you known longer who do you care about more who do you trust more do you still love your GF
now chose who you trust more
2006-07-13 11:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU MIGHT AS WELL GIVE IT YOUR BEST TRY AND MAKE THIS NEW START WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND. REGTRETS ARE A B***H. START BY REMEMBERING WHAT IT WAS, THAT ATTRACTED YOU TO HER, IN THE BEGINNING.
2006-07-13 11:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by PAULA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i would break up wth her because she did you wrong, and i bet when you get your trust built up she will most likly do you wrong again.
2006-07-13 11:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by jake042005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋