play & have fantasies ??? My hubby & I like to spend time together ALONE once a month we go & take our kida to grandma's house & we go out then come back home & have a special might. Last weekend was our weekend alone, but we had an idea to play on the phone like completely extrangers & start a conversation,then pretend to have a "date" or "afair" I then we continue until we did it , we enjoy it & had fun it was something new ... But how good or bad is it for a relationship to have this kinds or fantasies or games ????? Any suggestions or advices ????
2006-07-13 11:23:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thats not only awsome but i always thought it was healthy in a married relationship , so long as everything you do is with in the realm of you and him only . a bit of a suggestion though is when you have a chance and the money on your next spice night go to a hotel (even if its around the corner from the house) there is somthing about going to a hotel room that really excite the married sex..... yes married couple enjoy playing and its healthy to enjoy a healthy sex life......dont beleiev me ask a pastor he will tell you the same..... unless your catholic lol j/k
2006-07-13 11:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by joe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad. Having fun in a relationship once in a while would help you make it expand and colorful. Just to come up w/ new ideas in keeping the fire buring would be healthy. Enjoy every moment w/ him,that's the most important part there. As long as neither of you gets hurt,it doesn't matter. Spending time together every once in a while would make you discover some more about who or what he/she really is. Just maintain your willingness to satisfy him/her. More importantly,show him/her how much he/she means to you.
2006-07-13 12:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by sweetsexything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have found someone who you feel comfortable enough with to not only have your fantasies but to work them out between the two of you is very special.Too few couples have the ability to communicate & respond so well to their partner. You are keeping you marriage alive & fresh. Congratulaions!
2006-07-13 11:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by mdsredhen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's GREAT for your relationship. All's fair in a manogomous relationship I think, as long as you involve only the two of you and as long as you both agree. Anything you can do to keep the sparks flying is great for your marriage. You have to spend the rest of your life together. Don't let it get boring.
2006-07-13 11:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by paintgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's awesome!
If those are your or his fantasies, then do them with eachother. Its better that he is "having an affair" with you than someone else! Its also a break from reality... the every day stress of work, errands, appointments, and taking care of children.
Good for you -- have fun!!!
2006-07-13 11:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by .·:*RENE*:·. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats great. It is wonderful that you chose to spend time alone and find ways to spice it up. Sounds like you have it!
2006-07-13 11:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by AMY L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as it stays just that and no one wants to add a partner it can be a great and healthy thing that might bring u closer than ever
2006-07-13 11:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by dmon12m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you BOTH enjoy it, there is no harm. It may even help keep the "spice" in your lives!
2006-07-13 11:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is great for a relationship. It lets you play, and have fun, which is what more husband and wives need.
2006-07-13 11:26:13 · answer #9 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its great. You apparently are completely comfortable trying new things and are open and honest with each other. Rock on!!!! Keep it up!!!!!!
2006-07-13 11:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋