I'm 21 and my boyfriend of 5 years is 22. I dont know why but i feel like im 14 and this is going to be a big deal or somthing but we have been living to geather for almost a year now. Should be freaking out has much as I am. Also will this go away being so freaked out and all. Well any help right now would be great thank you
2006-07-13 11:10:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
lol...you just respect your parents, that's why you feel freaked out...
i think you should get everyone for dinner...and just say you're pregnant. also tell them your plans, so they don't think you have no idea what you're doing...lol
2006-07-13 11:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by alfjr24 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is NORMAL to feel anxeious about telling anyone you are pregnant, epscially your MOM...or any parents.
I went through it too at the same age you are now, I am 46 now.
I think FOR me it had to do with EVERYONE knows how it happened, there fore you are opening yourself to giving away private information. And for some people it just feels weird.
If you are both consenting adults and been living together it was bound to happen.
So yes try to just calm down and remember your mom did IT too before you did...(( YUCK! ))
I know it is just yucky and gittery butterflies...
I was really far along when I told my Mother-in-law she almost got mad that I waited 5 months!
"WE have to have a shower! " She yelled...
I told her HER son did not want her to know...so she started to hit him...
LOL!
This is a time also to build a bridge IF it ever got knocked down in the teen years, sometimes that happens, Mom's and Daughters just fall apart...and during the daughter's child birhting they MEND the GAP...
ENJOY life this is a blessing.
HAPPY DAYS!
Loaded diapers and the sweetest lil' faces and toes!
MANY BLESSINGS!
2006-07-13 11:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by Samuella SilverSelene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a good situation if you are living together already and both want to have the baby. Better wait until you are 12 or 15 weeks pregnant, just to be sure everything goes well.
I believe your parents will quickly accept the situation and look forward - no reason to worry about.
2006-07-13 11:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by swissnick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
u should have told her right from the start
do u think the baby was an accident and a mistake?
if no, then you can tell your mom this is what you want
if yes, then you should apologize to your mom but says you and your boyfriend want to keep the baby and especially mention that your boyfriend is making a huge effort to support the both of you
but i don't know if it's a good idea for both of you to tell her together
2006-07-13 11:16:34 · answer #4 · answered by Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all i think you shoudl decide for yourself whether you want the baby or not cause when i read ur question it seemd like you didn't want to be pregnant. It depends what kind of freaking out your doing. Just tell your mom that your pregnant. I'm sure she'll be happy for you! Hey, look on the bright side...atleast your not really 14 yrss oldd!!
2006-07-13 11:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by Aw3sOm3sT P3rsOn Ev3r <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom has been there before. She is your mother and nothing (age, living situation) is going to change that. If you are scared, nervous, all that... TELL HER. She will know what to do. She'll find out anyway, and it's best to be honest with her.
I'm in the same situation with my boyfriend too, and I'm also 21.
2006-07-13 11:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by BubbleUp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well did you want to get pregnant and have a kid? cuz otherwise you wouldnt be as freaked out...sooooo yeah i dont really know what to say except talk to your mom (shes not one of those control freaks who believes that you shouldnt have sex till marriage right??) and i think she'll understand - she might freak out too...but in 8 months from now she'll be by your side in the hospital waiting for her grandchild to come out.
2006-07-13 11:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all your grown so whatever goes down you should be able o handle it. Just let your mom know thatt its your decision to have the baby and that you ready for this. Just take tha responsibilities as they come to you and you'll be fine. I mean your old enough to put your foot down and let her know what on your mind. and your feelings should straighten up after while, that's just part of being pregnant. well i hope i helped
2006-07-13 11:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by Loriell M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an adult and I'm sure that your mom knows this. Is this what you want? If it is, then show your excitement to her and I'm sure she will be just as excited. I had my first when I was 20 and I would never take it back. Motherhood is wonderful and I love being a young mom
2006-07-13 11:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit her down and tell her, plus if the BF is sticking around then he should be there with you also. Since he helped out making the baby then he should stand by you when you have to tell her.
2006-07-13 11:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by masondixon0315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was pregnant at the age of 17. That was terrifying. But I told her while she was driving. The plan was if she pulled over, I would run!
2006-07-13 11:16:23 · answer #11 · answered by not_Luz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋