How do I just get over the man I really care about. Sometimes i ask myself do he really care abouy me the way i care about him. He is the only man I been seeing for the last 9months. How do I just stop thinking about him.
2006-07-13 10:57:44 · 13 answers · asked by angle2005star 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is so sad, I have been in the same situation. GO ahead and cry.. Its not fair to be treated poorly by anyone for any reason... Go out to the club, or bar or anywhere meet new people and get out there as AVAILABLE. It really will help, dont jump into anything serious immediately but make sure you are out there letting everyone know you are single and do not need him!!!! If you truly care about him only time can take that away, but just keep telling yourself hes not good enough for you (it sounds that way to me) And if you see him out, oh well, say hi, maybe dance a little then move on... no sense dwelling on the past. You can contact me if you want to talk more about it.... Good luck!
2006-07-13 11:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and find out how he feel and go on from there you don't need to be crying about something like that you got to be strong.It ok to think of your man but not 24\7 you need to find you a hobby or a good things to keep you busy a little.
2006-07-13 18:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself only 10 minutes a day to cry about him...better yet,
get a soft cloth doll that represents the creep, and stick pins into it. Then start going out again to places where you can meet new people and know that he wasn't a very nice person anyway, if
he made you so miserable.
2006-07-13 18:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by elcycer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry that you feel bad like this. The best way to get over him is to go out and have fun with your friends. Maybe you'll meet someone else. Just don't stay home being depressed. You're single now, so go and enjoy it. Have a great time and I wish you the best of luck..........
2006-07-13 18:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You eat ice cream and watch movies with your girlfriends for a week. Then you fill your schedule with work, fun stuff, and anything else to keep you busy. In 3 months you won't even remember his name. :)
The worst thing you can do is sit around thinking about what was.
2006-07-13 18:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go out with your girlfriends and have fun. When you go out alot of guys will talk to you. Now I am not saying go out with any of them just know that you have options and you are a beautiful person and don't ever let anyone ever make you feel less than you are! good luck!
2006-07-13 18:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by anastacia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could hang out with couple of your friends. You could go a way for a couple of days, like a trip somewhere else and have fun make new friends, met new people.
2006-07-13 18:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by vicky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if it was meant to be he would be with you. You have one life to live in this beautiful world. They are many men in this world to get sad over one give it time you'll see.
2006-07-13 18:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by christine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some friends,talk to your family and your friends.Get a hobby.All that will help you stop thinking about him all day.
2006-07-13 18:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.
Uh, tell him how you feel
If he doesn't feel the same...
IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD
So, please notify me immediately if he says "no" so I can make plans
2006-07-13 17:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋