I am gay and I am very much saddened by how slutty everyone is. I know there are people like me out there and I'll never stop looking but why? Why the sluttiness!?
2006-07-13 10:52:18 · 22 answers · asked by Nrassm 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
"Gay" has nothing to do with it. Men are men, whether they are gay or not. It only looks worse to you because with gay men, there's TWO men together with the male sex drive that their body chemistry naturally has. Men have strong sexual urges quite frequently, typically more frequently (but not always) more than women. Perhaps it is the testosterone. So two guys together who feel that lust and understand it AND satisfy it - IT WILL BE LIKE THAT! But don't worry - there are gay men who long for a good relationship, you just have to find them.
2006-07-13 11:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not gay but I used to hang a lot with them.
I think it is because they feel empty inside and they try to fill that space with sex. At least that's what I noticed. Some of them in the start wished to have a couple but they dissapointed because it was so hard to get a serious one so they accepted the reality and became sluttie.
Other friend did not accept this for himself and keep trying to get someone serious and he got it!!! Do not accept less for you, keep looking for real love. There are good guys outside.
2006-07-13 18:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by C6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all of them are but yes I do agree allot of people in the gay community are kind of like villiage bikes, everyone gets a turn.
But just don't give up you will find a person that has the same values as yourself, it will just take time.
Good luck.
2006-07-14 04:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by ak23boi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think gay men are more open with their sex life than straight men or women. I'm not sure they are a whole lot sluttier. And we just notice the ones who have a lot of stories to tell.
Most of the guys I know aren't getting any!
2006-07-13 18:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by michael941260 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all gay men are promiscuous. My best friends happen to be gay and they have been seeing each other happily for two years.
Yes there are some like that, but to be so desciminatory.....for shame!
2006-07-13 17:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gay
but yeah I'm not a slut..........
that's just gay culture......
that's why you can't find any gay prostitutes at the corners.....
but yeah i know how you feel.........
i haven't found any guys that haven't slept with someone in the past year......
so yeah
that's gay culture........
but not everyone like that.......
well
if u want to talk find me on myspace by the e-mail of jayalas06@univision.com
but yeah
gay culture....
2006-07-13 18:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by Beach boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there are a few like you. Keep looking you will find one or two. I am but I am a lesbian and taken. But I once asked this same question. But it is not just the gay-men. Many str8's tooo.
2006-07-13 17:56:36 · answer #7 · answered by azgraywolf143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all gays are promiscuous, there are some who value a good relationship built on trust and respect, not just sex. Me myself I'm still a virgin, and it's gonna be that way until I find mr. right
2006-07-13 17:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think because gay men are very visually orientated and it's easy to find willing gay partners anywhere.....but like you I am not like that either
2006-07-13 18:33:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but it drives me crazy! That, and gay guys either talk like they haven't hit puberty or black girls. I'm not racist but all the gay guys I know talk, walk and act like african-american chicks! They are always snapping and saying "Oh know you didn't, girl!". It's so annoying!
2006-07-13 18:01:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋