And he has been talking 2 other girlz and checking them out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And how should i tell him i found all this w/th my daughter???? ASAP
And how could i trap him on myspace.com ASAP ASAP
2006-07-13 10:17:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just dump him! you already know he is cheating, and he knows he is cheating, why do you need to trap him?
2006-07-13 10:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the fact that he is talking to two other girls and checking them out is enough information. Ask him if he's okay with you trolling around the Internet looking for something better as long as you break up with him before you sleep with the person you find, or would he prefer not to know? He'll probably get the point just from that but the two of you should discuss it.
If he makes it clear that he wants an exclusive relationship with you and agrees that neither of you should be out there hunting, looking for trouble, ask him how, considering what you have already seen, he can reassure you that this behavior will not continue.
Best of luck. There is an awful lot of temptation out there and a lot of people who do not have the integrity to avoid it. Unfortunately one of the deciding factors in whether or not a person will cheat is opportunity. With the Internet, there is endless opportunity. You have to find a guy who won't cheat because it would violate HIS value system. Then you're safe.
2006-07-13 10:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confrontation time. And leave the kid out of it. What's going on between you & the guy has nothing whatsoever to do with a child (even if she was the one to find the initial "evidence").
Forget the trap thing...the guy will probably find a way to wiggle out of it. Just come out and tell him what you've found. He'll be pissed off for sure, but maybe it's not as sinister as you think it is...or maybe it is. Only HE knows for sure.
2006-07-13 10:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are so dumb and get what they deserve. I'm sorry that you discovered it with your daughter. I would create a bogus profile and then ask to add him as a friend, tell him that you liked his profile. You can then probably find out what he's doing by exchanging e-mails, etc.
2006-07-13 10:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Phillip B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is on my space and married, so he is cheating. Have one of your daughters friends flirt with him, and ask her to let you see the things that he says to her if you feel the need to entrap him. You already have the evidence you need though.
2006-07-13 10:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new account on myspace. A account that he doesn't know off.. And talk to him.. Try to flirt with him, if he doesn't crack... Your man is cheating-free or something.. I don't know..
2006-07-13 10:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look at all the other peoples friends and see there remarks! that will lead you to find out then let him know, or post a mesg on the other girls site.
2006-07-13 10:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jewels G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trap him? no wonder he wants to cheat, maybe you should see if he trying to fly out of the country to get away from your manipulating trying to trap a brotha approach.
2006-07-13 10:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by doo to doo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up a fake profile with photos of a girl who he would find attractive but aren't you....send him a message to his account and see if he bites I suppose. :P
2006-07-13 10:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by Valerie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a new account and go to his page and look at his friends list
2006-07-13 10:21:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋