Like people who try to make everyone happy except themselves.
2006-07-13 10:06:50 · 11 answers · asked by Leroy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh yeahhh, they try to please ppl so much, that they stop worrying about what they really want. It may go as far as making a person unhappy without the person even realizing why. I used to be a ppl pleaser.... i just had to care about everyones feelings thats just how i was, up until i almost had a lil breakdown! lol now ive learned to be a little more selfish, without necessarily hurting others...haha
2006-07-13 10:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by Steph is tight like a tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's not healthy, and will eventually materialize some strange disease in the people pleaser
2006-07-13 17:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by ThereisEnough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be bad because if you're pleasing everyone, then you must be like a chameleon. It means you're not being authentic and not being true to yourself.
If you are true to yourself, there will always be some people who won't like you.
It's good to care about other people, and want them to be happy, but not if it means compromising your values or pretending you have opinions you don't have etc.
2006-07-13 17:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by Cina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-13 17:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i know someone like that he ended up pushing everyone away and was left with nothing so now he is moving across the country to start a new life
2006-07-13 19:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by scivi92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do both, its nice to help people out but remember you can only do so much. In order to help others you have to help yourself too.
2006-07-13 17:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not bad. im a people pleaser but you really should make some time to please yourself. treat yourself
2006-07-13 17:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You neglect yourself.
2006-07-13 17:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can please some of the people some of the time but you can't please everyone all the time.
2006-07-13 17:11:02 · answer #9 · answered by big T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can be bad at times...you cant please everyone eat the sametime..so its better that you please yourself first
2006-07-13 17:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by fresh n honest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋