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I am with my daughters father we have been together for 6 years off and on.
We now live together, but we are not married I do kind of want to get married but then I don't, sometimes I feel like if he does not love me because he doesn't tell me WHY? he tells his mom,dad he loves them when he talks to them. He tells me sometimes just because I don't tell you I love you doesnt meant I don't love you but I do. We do things together with our daughter takes trips watch movies. I just don't no what to do or think and Im a kind of person that just keeps things inside and does not speak out and tell him how I feel. Please someone give me your advice.

2006-07-13 10:00:10 · 9 answers · asked by California<3 3 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

9 answers

Sounds like he does by the time you spend together. Look for the little things in his daily activities that SHOW you how much he loves you. Could be as simple as him taking care of an errand you didn't expect he'd take care of. Could be big like jewelry. Just keep your eyes peeled for those things. Now, if you want this relationship to work, you can't be afraid to speak your mind and let him know what you want and need. It's very true that actions speak louder than words, particularly for men when showing they love you. If you need to hear it from him more, tell him one night when the 2 of you are out together alone. Hope that helps!

2006-07-13 10:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0 0

Well if you continue to hold things in, you'll just keep in this endless circle of what to do. Maybe if you put your words, thoughts and feelings out there then you could have something to work with. I think you both are afraid of commitment,it's a scary thing. You both now have a child together if that doesn't want to make two people commit then what does? Good luck and I hope you find your way.

2006-07-13 17:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by Barbie doll lover 4 · 0 0

You need to stop holding things in and talk to him. Tell him how you are feeling. I was with my ex for 7 years we have a son together,it didn't mean we were meant to be together... When I met my husband... I knew right away he was the one. Some times the longer you are with someone the harder it is to realize what it is that you want and what makes you truly happy. Your heart never lies. Good luck

2006-07-13 17:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by chillilyn 2 · 0 0

He doesn't really love you, and I think you are aware of that. If your relationship is off and on, and he is unwilling to marry you, nor tell you that he loves you, he really doesn't. You are a convienance for him as he is to you. You need to decide what to do. Leave him or tell him you want and need to be married.

2006-07-13 17:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

speak up! that is the only way that he'll know how u feel! he cannot read ur mind. and if u want him to tell u he loves u, tell him that. he needs to learn how to treat a woman

2006-07-13 17:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by Unicorn 3 · 0 0

I think he should be able to tell you that he loves you. Does he want to get married? If he does...he must love you.

Good luck!!!!

2006-07-13 17:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by hannah062199 2 · 0 0

I think he should tell you how hw feel if he love you. Just stick in there.

2006-07-13 17:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0 0

No idea

2006-07-13 17:05:19 · answer #8 · answered by Mani* 2 · 0 0

i think he is scare to tell you because is scared of love.........

2006-07-13 17:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla H 2 · 0 0

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