my lover will graduate college in two years, we have been living together for 6 mo.s. now. today i was told that there is a 50/50 chance that we will part after graduation. that, if it happens, she wants the friendship to continue but not as lovers. should i leave now?
2006-07-13 09:56:45 · 12 answers · asked by celestrialangelkisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
obviously she doesn't love you if she's sayin your relationship will end as soon as graduation comes but before you decide to leave her maybe you should talk this some with her and get more details of how she feels towards you and why she thinks that you should break up when graduation comes. the advice i can give you is to be sure you know exactly how she feels for you and that you're happy with the decision you make.
2006-07-13 10:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by GigglesGirl 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
sounds like she's just using you for a place to live. Don't be a moron, if she already knows you might not be together 2 years from now she doesn't plan on being with you. Who the hell is she ??? Nostradomas ??? And you must be Nostra-dumbass. Dude, don't be a fool, get rid of her.
2006-07-13 10:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. it relatively is loopy. nicely to initiate, He has had thoughts for you. have you ever had genuine thoughts for him different than in straightforward terms a delightful feeling? 2d you do no longer point out in case you're gay or bi. yet the way it sounds, you're better than possibly gay. He loves you and values your friendship. i might say provide it a brilliant gamble yet think of on it first. in case you do, call him and ask him for forgiveness and tell him. If all and sundry knows him besides that's probable you and his mothers and fathers. 9 years would be a protracted friendship. you probable understand him terrific. So provide it a try. terrific of success to you and your chum!
2016-10-07 21:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by lavinia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she already made up her mind...leave now and don't waste time.
if a woman loves a guy the last thing on her mind would be to plan 2 yrs ahead with a break up instead of planning for marriage
2006-07-13 10:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would. Why waste another year ? You could meet the right one in that time. And why would you want to stay with someone who would say something like that anyway ?
2006-07-13 10:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is going to leave you in two years no matter what then leave him now...no need to waste time on a guy who doesn't plan on staying for the long run.
2006-07-13 10:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by hannah062199 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who times a relationship
2006-07-13 09:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea leave dont waist your time on a dead end.
2006-07-13 10:01:43 · answer #8 · answered by to2screw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!!! My ex of one day use to refer to me as his future ex wife (stupid of me to laugh) and I never even got promoted to fiance.
2006-07-13 10:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-13 09:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋