What do you think? having sex just for fun with a person u dont care? or having sex with a person who u feel something more than just sex?
2006-07-13 09:48:11 · 19 answers · asked by NiceGirl 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
what's better?
2006-07-13 09:53:58 · update #1
I actually waited until i was 26 (no lie and no shame) and in love, but he's been with other women and actually has a child with one. But he says he wishes he could've waited too,though,because he shared something that special with people who didn't deserve or appreciate it and regrets it now. And i have to say it hurts me a little too sometimes because it kind of makes me feel like he was worth waiting for,but i wasn't. But i guess it's a lot just to be the first that actually means something,though. Anyway, we both believe it's definitely better and more special if you really love each other. Afterall,you can't make love if there's no love to begin with. It should be about putting emotion into motion. Otherwise, you're just going through the motions and though it may be just as much--or more--satisfying physically,it's better to receive emotional fulfillment as well. To me,a successful sexual encounter is a meeting of heart,mind,body and spirit,or as the Spice Girls and Jewel put it, "2 become 1".
2006-07-13 10:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Understood 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is just the physical act and can be done with anyone. Making love is having sex and also being connected emotionally.
2006-07-13 16:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first part of your question...What is sex...If it involves the sexual organs...it is sex.
Next sex is great!
It is much better...no, MUCH MUCH better if it's with someone you care about and they know what they are doing.
If it's with someone you don't care that much about, it can still be so great. Especially if you have a very strong sexual attraction.
Sex is GREAT when you have wanted it with someone for so long, and you wait and wait, and then you finally have it.
It's also good for your skin, hair, and great exercise.
2006-07-13 16:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by PhantomLover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your question should ahve been, sex with feelings or no feelings? I much prefer someone that I love and care about...I mean, how trashy would I look if I just have sex with them and leave...besides, I wouldn't just let anyone stab his sword in my precious vagi...lol
2006-07-13 16:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by keziah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is what people do when they only care about shallow parts of the other person.
Making love is what people who love each other do.
2006-07-13 16:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Never [?] YOUR <3* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should be a moment of synergy between two people. I can't imagine opening up like that just anyone.
2006-07-13 16:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by Paul's Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the act, not the feeling.
2006-07-13 16:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by byrntzuga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a lot more spiritual and deep to have sex with someone you are in love with but you can have sex with someone you are only physically attracted to too.
2006-07-13 16:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definatley ffelings!! something deep like that should be shared between two emotionally involved people
that at the same time can also be fun
2006-07-13 16:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by ask_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is sex , love is the one your in love with
2006-07-13 16:56:02 · answer #10 · answered by robert l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋