Looking at porn, secret MySpace ID's, Secret email addresses and passwords, chatting and flirting with girls on-line, sending photos of your penis to women who are not your wife ? On-line cyber sex, signing up for single and looking websites ?
2006-07-13 09:33:36 · 62 answers · asked by Samantha A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES - It may not be physical cheating but emotional and betraying you and disrespecting....to the fullest.....
2006-07-13 09:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looking at porn is something natural that most men do. but i think that secret email addresses and the flirting with other women is abnoxiouse! yes this is cheating. if he wouldnt do it with you beside him, theres no reason that he should be doing it when your not. when a picture of a persons body is exchanged yes i would feel that is cheating. if your husband is signing up for single and looking web sites, possibly there is an addiction that needs to be helped. there is nothing right with someone doing these things when they are in a relationship with someone that they took vowes to love forever.
2006-07-13 10:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by spit fire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn, not necessarily, but everything else yes, mostly because it's all being kept secret from you, and they are things that you are not okay with. He's acting like a single guy, which is okay if you're a single guy.
Do you have an active sex life? Rather, did you before all this started (because I wouldn't blame you if you're not now!)? It sounds as if he's looking for something, and whatever it is he's not getting it from you -- which is not to say it's your fault, but it's certainly your problem now.
You both need to face reality. Husbands don't do these things. You need to decide whether you want to be married to this guy, because it's pretty obvious that he doesn't want to be married to you.
I think you should give him an ultimatum -- either knock all this sh*t off and give you access to all of his emailboxes, or you drop his a$$ like a bad habit. If he chooses wisley, counseling can only help.
Good luck!
2006-07-13 09:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by Judgie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you had asked a question before, the porn isnt cheating cuz men WILL watch porn but the cyber sex, the emails yes
get him help and be patient, we wont understand cuz were not in love with him the way you are
2006-07-13 09:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs Wright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first things sounds normal (many couples do enjoy watching porn together because they get in the mood; and secret e-mail adresses help you get to porn.) However, all the others do indeed sound like cheating for a married person. As well as those in a relationship.
2006-07-13 09:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by tekaro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do think this is a form of cheating. If he can do all this online there is no telling what he could be doing physically to someone else. You deserve a lot more respect from your husband. I hope you will find the courage to either put your foot down about this or move on and find someone that will respect you and truly treat you as their wife.
2006-07-13 09:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-13 09:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be a physical form of infedility but it is cheating according to me. If my husband did that, I would have to think seriously if I want to continue being married to someone that has a secret life. It's like they have a double life to live. The age of internet...not such a good thing, I swear.
2006-07-13 10:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by jade11378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes he is cheating. He is doing this all in secret and trying to pass himself off as single. I wouldn't doubt that he has been sleeping with other women in real life as well.
2006-07-13 10:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is cheating, and unless you have agreed that porn is okay that is cheating too. Most likely, if someone is doing all of those things they are cheating on you in 'reality' as well, or at least they are going to.
If this is happening to you you deserve better. No one deserves to be cheated on.
2006-07-13 09:39:57 · answer #10 · answered by wishing_i_could_sing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything that he wouldn't approve of you doing, I would consider that cheating. Overall, it sounds like he has an ego problem, and this is his way of feeding it so he feels "good." I'm sorry you are in the position that you are in, because he probably denies everything to you, when in fact, that makes him look like even more of a cheater.
2006-07-13 10:12:56 · answer #11 · answered by bjsmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋