my friend broke up with his girlfriend to go out with me! but she thinks i should feel bad but i don't, is that right??
2006-07-13 09:18:59 · 47 answers · asked by Cherry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i personally wouldn't have gone out with him but yes I think I would feel bad
2006-07-13 09:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have to understand her situation ...she is n the position ov gettin revange ..u'r not supposed to feel bad but put urself in her , she feels jalious becoz she lost him and she thinks it is u who stole her bf if u would have been in the same situation u wouldn't ask that gurl to feel bad ? no one is the same but some ppl think ok if their partner broke up with them he is not supposed to be around ne body else and has to live alone don't mind it coz that's the way they are and besides go for this guy n try to feel so good about it but be aware of some thing he kicked her butt becoz of u and he may treat u the same way just be smart
2006-07-13 09:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should feel bad. You didn't make him break up with your friend. He broke up with her because he like you better : )
2006-07-13 09:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by aShLeY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel bad if in fact you and this girl were also friends and you did something to encourage him to break up with her to further develop a relationship with him. You have to ask yourself how you would feel if the situation were reversed and can you form a lasting relationship with someone who may tend to be so "fickle"?
2006-07-13 09:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by mzmscheeveeuhs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Also don't feel bad next month when he breaks up with you to go out with another girl.
2006-07-13 09:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you feel guilty is he prefers to go out with you? The trick is not to feel bad if he eventually decides to go out with someone other than you.
2006-07-13 09:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by Harris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you were plotting against her or something I would feel bad! But it isn't your fault he likes you better. And the rule about not dating your friends ex is just silly!
2006-07-13 09:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by mistyblue7404 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of men out there, why you didn´t respect the one she was with. It must have hurt her, you could have waited some time before going out with him. You probably lost a good friend and you may realize this once he goes for one of your friends or else.
2006-07-13 10:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by copita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all depends if you messed with somebody that was yours. if you did then you SHOULD feel bad.BUT...if your friend started liking you and then you gradually liked him back and didnt make it obvious for his"girlfriend" to know ... then you SHOULDNT feel bad. these kind of things happen all the time.it just depends how it happend. but if you really like this guy...GO FOR IT AND DONT WORRY ABOUT IT!
2006-07-13 09:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by bandgirl08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me. If he really likes you, and you really like him, you shouldn't feel too bad, especially since it was his decision to break up with her, not yours. Dont be surprised if the ex-gf continues to try to make you feel bad tho.
2006-07-13 09:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by Fly C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋