We have been married for almost 2 years -- he wont keeep a job-- yells and screams at me when shits not right -- and thinks me taking care of our child and cleaning hous is nothin --- im tired of his way and have told him i want a divorce - i am not in love with him he pushed me too far away-- HE says bhe will move out but will not giveme a divorce -- I dont want to be obligated by marriage to this man any more-- What should i do??
2006-07-13 09:17:52 · 16 answers · asked by Hillary R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
File your paperwork let it sit for a month, then play nice get into bed with him go to give him a handjob, about halfway through it, had him the papers and the pen (kept by the bed) then bend his dick, and say "Sign it or lose it"
2006-07-13 09:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A spouse can't give the other a divorce ...that is the job of a JUDGE. File for a divorce and you will get your divorce. You dont even need him to show up in court. Just get him served and thats all you need. The courts will do the rest. I got divorced after 7 years of marriage and he even lives out of state. I had him served and he of course never came to court. My divorce was final 3 months after filing.
2006-07-13 16:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What state do you live in ? Find out about divorce laws by getting an attorney. Get a restraining order so he'll have to stay away from you. Get you child out of this now, if you love your child.
2006-07-13 16:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by Wise Old Witch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
File for divorce. He does not have to sign. After you to are legally separated for a period of time the divorce will go thru. See a lawyer and talk with him/her about a contested divorce.
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE HELD HOSTAGE BY THIS PIG!!!!!!
Good luck!
2006-07-13 16:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by itsmeee2006 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
File anyway. After the courts here the case and if you're in a no-fault divorce state, you'll be real happy!
2006-07-13 16:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by nhiz__image 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look if you want a divorce he don't have to sign the paper work for you to get your divorce.My ex husband did not sign the divorce papers and guess what iam divorced..So if you want a divorce bad enough then you move out.Let him know that you are not going to put up with his **** anymore
2006-07-13 16:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He can contest the divorce, but that will not stop you from divorcing him. You'll have to get an attorney and fight him in court.
2006-07-13 16:21:18 · answer #7 · answered by pamela_d_99 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so let him move out then file for divorce on the bases of abandonment
2006-07-13 16:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See what happens with time. Split up, and move on. I am sure that he will eventually, and when the time comes, he will let you get one. Also, look into an anullment? Can you do that without him? Or... You could always kill him (jk).
2006-07-13 16:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
make him leave. if he fights u. u can still get the divorce in one year and go on with your life. good luck
2006-07-13 18:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by olive_olive_72 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋