Does anyone out there have any advice on getting back with there ex; and any success stories?
2006-07-13 09:17:37 · 9 answers · asked by Swordfish 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I got back with my ex, and things are great. When we broke up, I didn't even know why. I didn't get to thinking about all the stuff that was wrong with our relationship until after we split. I had to take a step back so I could see all the things I couldn't have seen while we were together. I believe everthing happens for a reason. I started to look at things from her perspective, and it helped me know what she was feeling, and why she was feeling that way. When we got back together she knew I was serious about wanting to make it work.
The only advice I can give you is to take a step back, and try to look at things from his perspective like I did. Whether she split with you, you split with him or it was mutual. It really helps to see things from your partner's point of veiw. Not only did it help me understand her, it helped me understand myself.
Hope all goes well, good luck.
2006-07-13 15:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Nate 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 03:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not say as I have personal ones. However, I do know there aer a couple men I have dated that I would give a second chance.
Getting back with an ex would be complicated and difficult to stay the least. However, I have seen it happen. A lot is going to depends on what happened the first go around. What happened for you two to break up the first time, and what has changed since then? You have to ask yourself that. Has the situation really changed? Has he really changed?
Men can change but it take a lot for anyone to change. Perhaps enough time has passed or an event occured to allow these changes. Only you can judge that.
Good luck in your efforts and keep us advised.
2006-07-13 09:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mind games take many forms that you may not think of, for example, pretending you're in love with someone else or planning to be with another (to make your ex
jealous) is a terrible thing to do, and can seriously backfire.
Don't be mean or vicious. Going back to controlling your emotions -- you probably feel like taking revenge of striking back for the pain it caused you. Think deeply
about this -- imagine how much worse the situation could become by fighting fire with fire.
To come up with a solution to this saying, the only thing to fight fire with is water. Obviously this is a metaphor, but the meaning here is to defuse the situation instead
of resorting to base instincts.
It's not a nice thing, especially when children are involved to disrespect the other person, no matter what he feel they have done to you. You don't want to poison the
minds of others, as you may end up hurting them as well.
Keeping a calm demeanor about yourself and continuing on with your life will make you much more approachable, and when you have really calmed down, it will be a
lot easier to discuss the situation in a civilized way.
This is only the very beginning of making amends and getting your relationship back together, and it is a good idea to seek further advice as to where to go next.
These are just the beginning steps when asking - what can I do to get my ex back They are the initial techniques I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly
these aren't my original ideas. I turned to T 'Dub' Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love back.
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2015-06-27 15:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by Carmel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really say I have much advice, but I got back with my ex. She I guess didnt like the idea of being a lesbian. So she broke up with me. I just let her go and let her deal with the situation on her own. When she figured it out, we got back together. We have been in a loving relationship ever since.
2006-07-13 10:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by Holls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-02-12 12:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah!
I got back with my ex for 12 weeks and then I realice that I was doing a big mistake when he started acting the same way he did when we were together so I left him.
2006-07-13 09:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by perla_puertoriquena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am absolutely devastated that it looks like I’ll never be with my ex again. I wanted to tell you that I got my ex back! Thank you so much for helping me get my beloved fiancee back.
2015-02-09 04:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋