I usually am up to it, but recently I've had a whole bunch of problems at work and have a court date and I wanna quit my job, etc. But I read in a article that the guy feels undesirable, is that true? And does it turn a guy on always or bore him after a little while if I do everything he asks, as far as sex is concerned? And does sex cure all problems, as far as men are concerned? First year of marriage... thanks for the input.
2006-07-13 09:11:23 · 9 answers · asked by T-girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, generally a man is going to feel undesirable if his wife doesn't want to have sex.
People talk of boredom, but I believe that if a couple love each other sex is never boring. She does not need to do everything he asks, but a willingness to make herself available for love making goes a long way in the marriage. It isn't always convenient. You don't always feel in the mood. He doesn't always feel like going to work or doing the things he needs to do in the marriage, but we do it anyway. Knowing that you won't reject his advances is a great comfort and assurance to a man. It gives him self-confidence, which he needs if he is to perform and enjoy sex.
They say that sex is not important... unless it is missing in a marriage. Sex covers a multitude of shortcomings in the family. If sex is not an issue almost all the ordinary problems and conflicts of life can be worked out for a man. If sex is an issue all the other problems are greatly magnified. For many men sex is the greatest force in their lives.
2006-07-13 09:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by Doctor 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you need to ask your-self a question, do we have sex in times per week or times per month or year category.
Now if you are in the times per week category tell him to grow up. You are being reasonable and he just being selfish and wants what he wants when he wants it. Don't put up with that crap.
Now if you're in the times per month or year category you be way to self-centered for someone to be happy with you.
Sex don't cure all problems but mature couples express there love showing each other attention through sex. If one person in a marriage is controlling all the sex (often guised under the I have the right to say no premise) and as a couple you are down to less than sex once a week then basically you have crossed the line from loving behavior to selfish behavior.
2006-07-13 09:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by ihavetobeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex does not solve everything but it can create misunderstanding. If you love your husband, then you should share with him your worries as well as happiness. Being withdrawal from your hubby is usually not good for the relationship. Share with him what you shared with us and he'll understand.
2006-07-13 12:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kent N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex cures all problems. Sleep with your husband more...and share this advice with my wife. ;)
2006-07-13 09:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if you make it clear to him.... when the opposite happens though as far as i know it raises eyebrows... nomatter what the excuses are... and no sex doesn't cure everything, not even close. don't do everything he asks, do what you like to do.
2006-07-13 09:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by SpankmasterFlex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! We just go out and have an affair.
2006-07-13 09:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by sammyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know its been so long since i had sex with my wife i forget what it is like : (
2006-07-13 09:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by mi_gl_an 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS A 2 WAY STREET. WOMEN FEEL THE SAME WAY IF HE SAYS 'IM TOOO TIRED ECT'
2006-07-13 10:13:29 · answer #8 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE CARE OF YOUR MAN OR SOMEONE ELSE WILL.
2006-07-13 09:20:20 · answer #9 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋