2006-07-13 09:05:49 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Very possible. If that's really how you feel, then divorce may be in your future. Just be sure about what you're committing to first.
2006-07-13 09:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by mtjbrady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i think it is possible. Despite the fact that we all wish to get married to "the one love" of our life, it so happens at times that such things as; the person is not ready, get in the way. We end up making compromises. We may at times settle for other things like, for those who would respect us, or those who love us without us loving them back. In such a situation i think we never forget that if we had our way it would be someone else!
Also love at times plays tricks on people. You could very well find yourself falling out of love with your spouse and into love with someone else.
I also believe that love is not a virus that attacks you and there is nothing that we can do about it. I rather think it is a choice that we make.
2006-07-13 09:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by jbvin100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's possible. Sometimes the marriage is based on superficial reasons. Also, people change & they could fall out of love at some point.
Divorce is not the only answer but should only be seen as a last resort. Until then, weigh out your priorities like the children, their/ your future, etc.
Do it for the right reasons. Talk to a marriage counsellor/ lawyer/ family/ friend for better insight then make your decisions based on that.
2006-07-13 09:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible, under different circumstances
However, to be "in love" with someone does take time and effort. To love someone does not simply mean you have feeling for them, that's just your hormone rushing in your body.
To love someone is you're ready to compromise, to work through obstacles, and sacrifice to make both of your lives fruitful being together. Its take a great deals of effort from both side to do that, normally a committment in a relationship comes first for that to happen.
You maybe talking about having feeling for someone romatically after you're married. That's different than "in love"
2006-07-13 09:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by thsiung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it could be that you are secretly wishing from this other what you really want from your husband, but are lacking. I would suggest you rethink why you married this man, and if you really love him, work back to where the problem started and you might find that you really do love him, and not the other one and take what it is that is lacking and work on that ... It could be he makes you feel what you are missing from your marriage, so it might not even be love.... One night of passion is not worth a life time of pain.... think about it.. and good luck.
2006-07-13 09:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by texas.okie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! The feelings you are referring to are not love. They are lust.
Love is patient, kind, self-sacrificing, it keeps no record of wrongs, it is not proud, it is not rude.
It is unloving to delve into such a relationship as it would badly hurt your wife.
Typically, when there is temptation in this area, it is because there are issues in your marriage you are not dealing with. If you do the right thing and get some council and help and through off the temptation to be unfaithful - even in your mind - true love will bloom once again.
Good luck.
2006-07-13 09:11:43 · answer #6 · answered by davidvario 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens. Strong chemistry between two people can be perceived as "love", but honest love stands the test of time. If you're willing to scrap your current marriage for this person and be willing to spend the majority of your life with the new love, then you're in love. If it's only sexual attraction that fact will make itself known soon.
2006-07-13 09:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I don't understand why people think you can only be "in love" with one person. Love is a feeling. Where in the universe does it say that the feeling of love is limited? That's a human concept.
2006-07-13 09:09:35 · answer #8 · answered by idontgetit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you start with loving self. how can you love some body and be married that is plain stupid and i hope the person on the out side is smarter than that no they cant be other wise they wouldnt be with someone who cheats you will never be faithful to the other YOU ARE A CHEATER THE TWO OF YOU DESERVE SACH OTHER
2006-07-13 09:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very possible. Your marriage must be lacking something that you are finding somewhere else. Unless things change at home go for the new love.
2006-07-13 09:09:36 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be. If you are, you should leave the marriage, because you are not faithful. Faithfullness doesn't only mean sleeping around, but also showing the proper respect to the marriage. You are not doing this is you are thinking you are in love with someone else.
2006-07-13 09:10:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋