my girlfriend tells me im everything she ever could have hoped for in a guy i just want another opinion by telling you some of the things i do for her......i msg her throughout the day telling her how much i love her (she cant msg back because her phone is out of minutes....i dunno why i mentioned that), i give her cards for no reason, i never let her pay for anything if im around even if its clothes or something, i am real close with her family especially her brothers, ill talk to her for hours and never loose interest, i listen to everything she tells me, i put her above all but God, i find myself looking at my cell phone just to see a picture of her, im not afraid to be vulnerable with her (ive even cried in front of her) however i am insecure so i worry alot and i feel bad for putting the fact that im afraid of loosing her on her.
2006-07-13 08:42:46 · 23 answers · asked by yurbuddy04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u sound like one of the best guys of all time!!! :-) dont be insecure she loves u if not y would she b with u u have nothing to worry about she loveS u 4 u . continue to b YOU!
2006-07-13 08:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want? A pat on the back? A treat? She says that she is happy with you. That should be all that matters, not what strangers think of you! Are you just looking for compliments? It sounds as though you are either truly insecure or really like to toot your own horn. Most women like their men to be at least somewhat secure. Shedding tears once in awhile for a good reason is fine, but being an emotional wreck and a blubbering mess is not too attractive. Enjoy your girlfriend and that fact that she has not gotten rid of you----YET.
2006-07-13 08:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by witchywoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like your more than just a good boyfriend, you are a wonderful boyfriend. There need to be more guys like yourself who arent afraid to be human meaning a little more sensative, more aware, more sensable and mature. You sound like you treat her like a queen, why would she want to be with anybody else? Keep doing what you're doing, you are in love and love make you do things sometimes that make you ask yourself, why? But you obviously love her and these feelings of insecurities will pass. You have found someone that makes you want to be you, dont stop being that way because of a doubt in yourself. Keep doing what you're doing and it will all end up just fine!
2006-07-13 08:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by shawny2623 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you girlfriend tells you that you are "everything that she could have hoped for" you need to believe her. It is rare for one of us men in this world to show and care for a lady properly, and you are on the right tract for sure. Just remember that the insecure feelings that you have can be destructive to the relationship, and you need to get rid of those feelings. If her phone is out of minutes, how does she receive your messages? That is a little confusing to me.
2006-07-13 08:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is sweet and that more men should take your approach. I also think that you are losing yourself a little in your love for her. Do not lose who you are in light of loving her. Keep sight of the fact that you are two different people and do not become a doormat. I think that you are a wonderful boyfriend based on what you wrote you are thoughtful, open, considerate, loving and caring. I think that is great. Ignore the idiots that say otherwise.
2006-07-13 08:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo, not to be a dick, but you sound like your way too soft with her. My opinion, she will eventually lose interest if you continue acting like a lil girl. Sorry man, you gotta toughen up, give it a lil space, let her wonder what your doing a lil bit, don't be a pushover, don't be scared to disagree with her, have her call you most the time, then she'll be after that ***. Other than that, unless she ain't no hot commodity, she's gonna get bored. Trust.
2006-07-13 08:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by maneone22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be a good guy if your are not stretching the truth about the things you do. Most men won't take time to worry about the womans feelings. But for you YOU need to build more self confidence for your self and what will be will be.
2006-07-13 08:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by Board 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it must be annoying for you, yet your mom is barely preserving you and does not choose something to take place to you. Age difference does not count number she will continuously assume a guy is to previous for you considering you're her daughter. And sure your mom would have met your father the comparable time you met yours and your mom probable made some errors that she basically does not choose repeated to you. basically pay attention to her via fact in the top if some thing does take place to you, you will sense undesirable for no longer listening and you will remorseful concerning to the result.
2016-10-07 21:31:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maaan you remind me of me, except i put my gf above God...(probably will be struck down right after i finish typing this) my advice is, dont overdo it... and NEVER tell her that if she leaves you youll kill yourself. ALL girls told me that thats the worst thing to hear... cause then they just stay with you out of pity...(been down that road). and dont hesitate to show a little of your mean side every once in a while... girls arent into saints.... im still struggling witht he last one... show her that you want her more then anything in the world, but you dont need her (eventhough you do let it be our little secret till you decide to get married)
2006-07-13 08:52:22 · answer #9 · answered by SpankmasterFlex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You're every girls dream guy. At least through what you describe. Just remember to be yourself. Even if it doesn't work out between you to (which I hope it does) there are plenty other women out there who love a guy like you.
Good luck!
p.s. I'm one of those women. lol
2006-07-13 08:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by intelligentaphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋