my husband and daughter will be with me. am i makeing a good discion?
2006-07-13 08:38:57 · 23 answers · asked by mamita200619 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think a fresh start is a great idea, as long as your family is willing to go with you I would say go for it and good luck
2006-07-13 08:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I moved with my whole family from Philadelphia all the way to San Francisco and it was the best decision I have made in a long time. 1 year later we are healthier than ever and our business prospects are better than ever. I have gotten involved with the local mother's club and it's a whole new world for us. Of course my mom came along, which helps a lot, but my husband's mother could not, which also helps (I still have to deal with her, but easier from afar).
It can be hard to find just the right place for you and your family. If you have an oppoturnity, great. If you are just thinking to go and have no real destination, I personally would consult an astrologer on where we all might be happy - because as happy as we are here, I have seen solid relationships move across country and break up for seemingly no reason (and I think that could have been avoided if they checked the charts - but that is just me). If you want a line on a good astrologer, I am happy to hook you up. Sometimes even a pendulum over a map can help you pick a good place to start looking into.
Either way it is an excellent adventure - and if you don't burn any bridges at home, you can always come back. Good luck!
Peace!
2006-07-13 15:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting away from your past doesn't change it or make it go away. It's still embedded in your memory. The only way to avoid it is to accept it and tell yourself that that part of your life is over so it doesn't matter anymore. But, if your husband and daughter are all for it and it's really not going to make a difference if you stay or if you go then go for it. Good luck with everything.....
2006-07-13 15:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by mother_flower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope!
Just make sure that you bring everything to a close at the place you live now first. Get all of your bills paid, say everything you need to say to people who live there, do anything that you'd still like to do there, etc. Make sure your husband and daughter get to do the same.
I've recently just moved and it has made things so much better for me. However, I didn't get closure on everything first and now when I take my trip back to visit in about two weeks that's what I'll be working on. ;/ You don't want to have to end up doing the same!
So, my advice is...closure first, move second.
I really hope you find a happy future in your new place! :)
2006-07-13 15:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by xxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you and your husband can answer this. If your life is full of problems due to money issues, and you are thinking about an area that has a lower cost of living this is good, ut if the problems are not, you might just be looking to run away in hopes that the problems will stay behind, but they usually follow you.
2006-07-13 15:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pick up and move. I would do the say and I might be doing that soon also. Or I might own a house in two states, that I could go to when I want a change. move on.
2006-07-13 15:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what your past is that you want to run away from. Sometimes it's good, some times it really doesn't matter. Sometimes I think all married couples should move away from both their families. I think more couples would stay together that way. Just remember one thing; You can't run away from you.
2006-07-13 15:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by oldman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think it is a bad thing to run from your past and if you do decide to move make sure the people you will be living with feal good about it cause you dont wanna move and than have problems with them change is always hard i no this becuase i have already move out of state twice this year
2006-07-13 15:43:59 · answer #8 · answered by 57865985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. My husband and I are planning the same relocation in less than a year, moving from Texas to Oregon, and we can't wait to make a completely new start. Go for it, but remember that wherever you go, you can't run from all of your problems; we often take them with us.
2006-07-13 15:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not. As long as they both support you in you decision and will be happy as well. I feel the same way. I want to move out of my home state with my fiance.
2006-07-13 15:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by Courtney 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋