Is there a polite way to ask your wife to stop trying to perform felatio on you? Every time I ask her to stop nicely she tells me that I'm rude and she doesn't listen to me. She just keeps going. It's like a daily thing now and it sort of makes me uncomfortable.
Does anyone have a polite way for me to ask her to stop? I've tried please, but she just calls me gay.
2006-07-13 08:21:35 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES I do, There is a polish for nail bitters that makes your finger nails taste awful just slap a coat of that on your Mr.Happy and she will stop.
2006-07-14 09:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Is she teething you? What's the problem here? Is this question for real? Your wife needs to team up with others here who complain that their wives will NOT do it. "Sort of makes you uncomfortable?" As in "if it isn't missionary, it's a sin? kind of uncomfortable? I suppose the easiest way to get her to stop would be to trade places and just show her how bad being eating feels...don't stop until she begs for mercy! Do it everyday for a month...that will show her a thing or two!
2006-07-13 15:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, between the kids and our jobs, we don't have time together for this to be an issue, so I am truly at a loss. Best suggestion is to ask that you do more normal sex, and try more variety. If you are looking for less sexual activity, you might want to talk to her about your energy level and the stresses you have to deal with. Gotta be sure to say you still are attracted to her and want to remain sexual, but you think the two of you need more variety in your time together than just sex. Good luck.
2006-07-13 15:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by But why is the rum always gone? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't ask her while she's doing it. Pick a time when ya'll are just talking and visiting. She'll respond better when you try telling her exactly how it makes you feel. Tell her that you're sure you do things that make her uncomfortable and encourage her to share those things with her. Not only will it help you to solve your current prob. but it will open new communication between ya'll and help your whole relationship.
2006-07-13 15:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by kconklin31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are YOU being rude?? SHE'S the rude one, because she won't stop. Apparently she believes that you like what she's doing; it's obvious that you don't, and she has no regard for your feelings. You are not gay for not wanting fellatio, there are some men who don't want it. Have someone you both trust talk to her, in her presence, and explain your situation again. If she still doesn't listen, then you both need professional help.
2006-07-13 15:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop and then tell her why you want her to stop.
Did this suddenly start happening or was it something you used to like and now you don't? Are you cheating on her and not interested in her anymore?
Maybe she thinks this is the way to get you to love her again, by giving favors that most wives won't do for their husbands. You may not be the victim here...
2006-07-13 15:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by JAMMco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a severe problem here. Think man....
You very well may be gay. Except I think thats what gay men do. So I think you need to loosen up. If not have her give me a call. I'll take the hit for ya. You will feel better and so will I
2006-07-13 15:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes there is a polite way. Say.. Theres things you dont like.., be sweet though ok. and when you do that to me.. its not some thing im confortable with.doing all the time., it would be great if you understood and just stopped. and then ask her if theres anything you do that she dont like.. cause it will side track her and it will get her to go into her deep thoughts about what she doesnt like that you do.. and she will stop.
2006-07-13 15:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_poetic_fire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication!!!! Just tell her how YOU feel and make sure she doesn't feel attacked or critisized. Make sure it is a heart to heart talk and hopefully she will hear in your voice that it is something you are chosing and not that your don't appreciate her effort. This is the first time I have ever heard a guy say this, so be prepared to reassure her that it's not about her.
2006-07-13 15:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by Becky C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try doing something for her that excites her enough to make her stop.also she may have a fetish about doing that for you or to you.it sounds like she doesn't do that for you but for herself.i would have issue with her degrading you like that its rude and should never be done in the"bedroom". talk to her when you are not being intimate and find out why she does this. if you are close she will tell you the truth. communication is the key!
2006-07-13 15:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by mojomuppet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there are reason why you don't want her to? Oh, well....anyhow, just tell her flat out that you don't like it or feel it's degrading... whatever the reason is tell her that. Don't worry about it being polite, sometimes politeness isn't what you need.... sometimes only the blunt truth will work. Best wishes
2006-07-13 15:28:15 · answer #11 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋