im 11 years old and ive done more things in my life then most peaple have. and i dont just mean relation or sexualy i mean illegal things too but my biggest prblem is im not a virgin and my parents dont know, how should i tell them?
2006-07-13 07:54:53 · 8 answers · asked by Vivianne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to slow down. Its hard sometimes to stop and reflect on what you have done. I know cause I lost mine at a young age and didn't tell my mom she found out. She was so upset, then it became anger later on. Its like when your parents know your not a virgin they start thinking anyone you talk to can be someone you been with. First get your life straighter. Be kid and go to the doctor to get a check up. Then forget it ever happen and be the person you know you can be. A great person.
2006-07-13 08:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by confuzioncity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to get yourself together! If you don't you are either going to end up pregnant or in jail. Or maybe both. Do you really want your future to look like this. I would hope not. If your parents are good parents, go talk to them, they will be able to help you out. If not go and talk to a responsible adult, like a teacher or counselor. Good Luck
P.S. And to the guy that said you can't get pregnant at 11, he doesn't know much about being a girl, since he isn't one. If you have already had your period, then yes you can get pregnant.
2006-07-13 15:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by luckymom43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, technically your parts are not even functioning like a women because you have'nt even gone through your adolecence ages (at least 13, and plus you cant even get pregnant at 11) so if you have done it, you really didnt do it(if you get what i mean). That just qualifies as sexually playing, not actual sex. So just dont say anything at all because your not old enough to qualify for sex, so you didnt really have sex. Thats just how i look at it, you may see it differently. Any way, why would you want to have sex at 11, you should do things your age.
2006-07-13 15:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by See ya later aligator 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a wasted childhood. Man you cheated yourself out of the best time of your life, trying to grow up too fast. You made the decision to be stupid, so you decide on how you are going to break your parents heart. I only hope that when you have kids they don't disappoint you the way your parents are going to be disappointed at your decisions. You sound very proud to be doing the stupid things you are doing. I only hope you smarten up and realize that you have your whole life ahead of you. You should enjoy being a kid, and stop trying to grow up so fast.
2006-07-13 15:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them so they can confine you to your room. You need help for real. 11 is too young go play with your barbies or something
2006-07-13 15:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by cal-p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be a kid and enjoy your life don't tell her because it would crush her world. and stop doing illeagal stuff.
2006-07-13 14:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by suzukigirl06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be completely honest with them and tell them EVERYTHING you have done . be honest with them this way the will know they can trust you
2006-07-13 15:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel so sorry for you.why did u waist ur childhood?!...u'll never get that back!!....most of us wish we could go back!
.....man......thats.......thats.....something.
....if u tell ur parents...u'll break their hearts.
....don't tell ur parent.I know you should be honest.but this is too much for ur parents to take....and for their sake....don't.
....stop trying to grow up so fast!! ur gonna regret it so much when u get older.
2006-07-13 17:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋