My wife had a boyfriend while we were seperated and now I want to watch her have sex with other men.It really turns me on when I see her talking to other guys when we are out. Could you have sex with another man if you husband wanted you to ?
2006-07-13 07:43:31 · 21 answers · asked by Jim k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
uh no. Are ya'll still seperated, if so, why would you want to? There is a reason in the first place ya'll are seperated. If not, have you thought about the possibility that it is the guy's presence that makes you horny? ANd if ya'll are together, again, wouldn't you want to try your marriage just you 2, cause if your thinking about inviting others into it, maybe you should seperate again, and think about this, if you do that... are you both comfortable with being swingers for the duration of your marriage? Marriage is supposed to include just you and her, and a higher power if you choose to, but not any other human beings involved, that creates distrust, insecurity issues, the works.
2006-07-13 07:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by kmspyker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think it would have a negative impact on my relationship. Let's say what if she feels he is better than you. Can you handle the thought of your wife wishing she was with the other man while the two of you are being intimate alone. I know I could not. I don't htink it is a good idea, it could cause to many problems.
2006-07-13 07:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That situation could lead to larger problems on down the line. You could feel twangs of jealousy, she could feel guilt. Marriage should last a lifetime. That could be a long time to have these feelings of guilt and jealousy. Try renting an Adult Video rather than involving a third person to your bedroom party.
2006-07-13 07:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mom of 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldnt just watch but I can let one join in. My wife expressed a desire of being with another woman. I let her try it and I joined in. It turned her on to see me doing her and the other girl. Then we tried it with another guy joining in. And I admit it turned me on to see my wife getting so hot with the both of us. You have to be in a stable relationship to these things.
2006-07-13 08:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend would never ever EVER ask me to...i've never heard of any guy actually wanting that, of his wife especially. but if thats what u like and ur wifes down with it go for it. definatly not my cup of tea tho
2006-07-13 07:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by Hypnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I could or not. My husband wouldn't even dream about me doing that.
2006-07-13 07:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel awkward. I probably could do this if my husband wanted me to.
2006-07-13 07:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'd be awkward and give a guilty conscience. Although it would be hawt :P
2006-07-13 07:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by ?-?lue-Eye?-? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she already was i don't think she would have a problem with it, i dont think i could i love my husband to much to do that
2006-07-13 07:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. there would have to be alot of trust. LOL
2006-07-13 07:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋