Her boyfriend which is my cousin by the way, does not want to find a job. She has been paying all the bills on her own and the rent is about 1,200 monthly. She has helped him out as much as she could and one month of them being together she gave him$1,ooo check for a lawyer for custody of his son. It has 7 months and he can not keep a job and she does not know what to do. I feel bad for her. She wantmy advice. What should I tell her?
2006-07-13 07:34:34 · 4 answers · asked by lifeislove 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he never got custody. did i mention hes a coke head too?
2006-07-13 07:48:07 · update #1
Easy answer, get rid of him. She is really missing out on a great guy somewhere out there. She should not waste her time any longer. We are not going to live forever, so why not be happy while we're here :)He obviously does not respect her. He needs to MAN UP! You should tell your cousin like it is and stop mooching off of your friend. One more thing, how in the world does he expect to get custody with no job???? I think you know what you should do :o)
2006-07-13 07:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sonja 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, what would YOU do if your boyfriend was freeloading off you and stretching your finances beyond that which they could absorb AND you thought he was just a lazy son of a gun who COULD get a job if he wanted ? What would you do ?
Lord, what more do either of you need to know ?
2006-07-13 14:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just tell her to tell her man whats on her mind if he takes no heed she should kick him out
2006-07-13 14:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to kick the lazy bum out of her house and let him pay for his own crack...
2006-07-14 01:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by Big Z 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋