i have found atleast 4 pairs of womens underwear in my house in the last 3 months and i know its not cause he is cheating because i know whose underwear they are i have also found pictures of my female friends and family made into collages right along with the panties....how common is it for a married man to steal other womens underwear...im not bad looking i am 25 years old and 110 lbs we have a fairly active sex life and he has never asked anything odd or freakish of me he is not the player type and is fairly shy but we have been together for 11 years and married for 3 years..he says it has nothing to do with me but he cant seem to tell me why?? He has also developed a methamphetamine habit in the last year that i am dealing with as well and dont know if this type of behavior could be related to drug use or not ?? please help before i file for divorce i am extremely hurt by all of this!!!
2006-07-13 07:28:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your husband has a fetish. It's abnormal, and probably associated with childhood experiences and fantasies. It is a kind of mental disorder.
A few years ago I watched a documentary about a company that sells dirty panties. For an extra fee they would send a picture or a little history of the woman who wore the panties. The documentary pointed out that the company actually cheated, and used a spray of some concoction they had to make the panties smell like a woman had been wearing them. The histories were fictional. It all sounds sick to me, but I think your husband can be helped. It does not necessarily indicate violent or harmful intent.
2006-07-13 07:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by Doctor 7 · 2⤊ 5⤋
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i have found atleast 4 pairs of womens underwear in my house in the last 3 months and i know its not cause he is cheating because i know whose underwear they are i have also found pictures of my female friends and family made into collages right along with the panties....how common is it for a...
2015-08-19 05:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have ever right to be hurt. Yes this could be happening because of the drugs but don't allow the illegal drug abuse be an excuse he needs to be held accountable for his actions. Example you rob a bank and during the trial you say but I was on drugs. Would that matter in a judges eyes? Nope he still committed the offense. Same goes here he has made the choice of doing the drugs so he should still be accountable for what actions he has high or dry. Sorry for the pain that he has caused you but you are the only one that can take care of you. Good Luck!
2006-07-13 07:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sounds llke he is materbating while fantasing about the women whose panties he has and collection of pictures. He probaly is too embarased he got caught and does not want to talk about it. A guy does not like to be caught doing this. It probaly won't stop.
2006-07-13 08:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by coloklute 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A maintenance man at the apartment complex I used to live in was stealing my dirty underwear. GROSS! No offense, but this behavior almost always leads to something worse, that is what the cops told me when they caught my nasty panty-stealer (stalking, rape, etc) He sounds like he has some serious issues. And remember, when they catch a serial killer, the neighbors always say what a shy, nice guy he is, and they are often married, too. Be careful, girl. If it was me, I'd leave him.
2006-07-13 07:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Not sure how common it is ,But when my sister was pregnant (you know what pregnancy panties look like) she caught a friend of her husband stealing them.Ewwwww
2006-07-13 07:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
That whole circumstance doesn't sound too odd, but you need to confront him about it.
I don't think it means he's cheating on you, but he's not being honest - either about what he's doing (where was he to get them) or what turns him on.
If he's not going to tell you what he wants, then what good is a lying, drug-user? That's when you dump him.
2006-07-13 07:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by justwebbrowsing 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you need to get out and fast how in the hell is he getting these other panties and the are dirty ewwww it sounds as ifhe can be a stalker or rapist you need to let these people know so they can be aware and have extra protection around you as well better sleep with one eye open there is no excuse for this behavior you say you are hurt you need to be scared
2006-07-13 07:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
the methamphetamine has nothing to do with it. he needs to get help for that ASAP and forget about the pantie thing for now. the methamphetamine will kill him, its not a question of it, its a matter of when. but to put your mind at ease about the pantie thing i take panties, and other things (clothes), from my cousin. im her size and she has way too many clothes and such to notice anything is missing. i do not do any drugs at all so that has nothing to do with it. i just like to wear them.
2006-07-18 08:18:52 · answer #10 · answered by maria_cd_in_training 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋