my partener is 15. he wants to. i want to, if i am safe is it okay? i feel and look sexi. many people have tried befor. i started having sex when i was 11. i am ready.
2006-07-13 07:18:16 · 32 answers · asked by amber 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Whatever you both may think, you're not ready. You're too young.
2006-07-13 07:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by Troy S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do us all a favor and go back to playing with your barbies! Talk to your mother and/or father or close friend! I know you don't want to hear this but your still a child yourself! Do you know about aids? Pregnancy? STD'S? If you have no place to turn, go to a trusted older friend at school. It's never to late to stop! Ask yourself "Is it really worth it" There are other ways at pleasuring yourself. Find other ways. Being close to someone doesn't always have to consist of sex. Your body is a temple. Do you really think later on in your life some guy is going to want damaged goods? You have got to respect yourself young lady! Don't be afraid to say "NO" So many people are these days! Think about the consequences of your actions for goodness sakes! I know your rolling your eyes but just think about what your about to do! You can't ever go back! Just remember that! You have so much time to be an adult and only a few short years to be a kid! Just enjoy your time as a kid because like it or not, you ARE!
2006-07-13 07:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not ready now and you certainly weren't ready at 11.
How can you look sexy your only 13.
You should stay in school and pay attention.
Obviously you think you're mature enough....
Make sure you use a CONDOM.
And if you're gonna be sexually active go on the freakin pill so you don't end up getting pregnant then asking a question on here about getting an abortion.
There are many STD's you can contract as well.
Please use a condom
2006-07-13 07:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are way way to young.what if you got pregnant?You are not old enough to get a job to support that baby.If you think you are woman enough to have sex than you should be woman enough to take care of a baby.You are just a kid.You could not take care of a baby.I think you need to stop having sex until you are like 18.Try being a 13 year old girl.Talk to you friends and do things with them.Leave all the boys alone for right now.I don't know if anybody has told you this or not but you are going to give your self a bad name if you keep this up.Also if you are going to be having sex with every boy that comes along that says he wants to then guess what.All the boys are going to be useing you.Honey All guys want is only one thing and can you guess what that one thing is?They will tell you that they love you and they will tell you whatever it is that you want to hear.You know why?Because they want to use you.After thay get what they want then they are gone.Why do you want to let a guy use you like that?
2006-07-13 10:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey your as old as I am. I had sex at thirteen and trust me if u have ur period already its worst because you can get pregnant. Ask your mom what she would think about a pregnant thirteen year old. Your gonna ruin your life if you have already. By the way why don't you go out with some one your own age. Having sex at eleven was and probably will be the worst mistake of your life. I was in a similar situation when i was 8 with my cousin. If I were you I would use a condom and birthcontrol and anything but chances are the you could end up pregnant. Sperm swim so good luck honey.
2006-07-13 08:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already had sex why are you looking for permission on here? I dont think 13 is an appropriate age, no matter if you look and feel sexy. How sexy would you look with stretch marks and fat rolls after giving birth?All 15 year old males want to have sex, it doesnt change as they get older. My opinion is it is not ok. No matter how safe you think you are being, the safest way is to not have sex.
2006-07-13 07:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by Tamie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I'm almost 13 and can't even imagine putting myself in a situation like this! That is so stupid! Your stupid if you do that! There's enough stupid kids in this world having sex, getting diseases,getting pregnant and all that! Why do you want to add one more to the mix? I don't care what anyone thinks about me, I'm still a kid and I love being one. There's nothing wrong with it. My friends tease me sometimes when they fins out I still play barbies with my little sister but I don't care because I know they are really at home doing the same thing. They are just too weak minded to admit it! It's not like my mom or dad are telling me I am not allowed to think about sex stuff. I do. But there is like no friggin way I would do something like that right now! It's STUPID! God! Grow a backbone!
2006-07-18 03:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you mean are you ready first of y'all you wasnt ready starting at the age 11 you still not ready 2 years but what you need to do is take health class in whatever school you go to and see if you still want to have sex like you are.
2006-07-13 07:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by ms.mosley06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will you support the child if you end up pregnant? There is no 100% safe method of birth control other than abstinence and hysterectomy. You should really wait until you are older. Also, why are you asking advice from strangers? Sounds like you should be doing some bonding with your family or maybe a counselor.
2006-07-13 07:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by Bitsy Fairview 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age 11? You are just a kid. DO NOT HAVE SEX till you become an adult. I will say this now but when you get old enough to get married, that man is not going to want to be with you if you been sleeping around since the age of 11. He is going to think very little of you. Be a kid and stop doing adult stuff. Geesh!
2006-07-13 07:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had sex for the first time when I was 13 - BIG MISTAKE. It's honestly not worth the hassle. I'd wait if you could. If you just absolutely HAVE to have sex ... be sure you're on birth control and your partner uses a condom just to ensure that you don't get pregnant. Just remember that NO form of birth control is 100% effective. The only thing that is - is abstinance.
2006-07-13 07:21:56 · answer #11 · answered by Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋