i am going to camp with two of my friends who are like my good friends but i tend to feel a little horrible about myself around them because i am bigger than they are so my question is how do i feel comfertable around them?? please help i leave tomorrow!
2006-07-13 07:10:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, if you want to feel comfotable, be yourself. You may think that it a bad answer, but it isn't - it has it's secrets. These friends are close. Correct? And even if you magically turned into a mouse, they'd still be there for you. The more you TRY to feel comfortable, the more UNCOMFORTABLE you will get. So act as if they are your sisters, or just imaginary buds. So what if you're big? Millions of people are big. They go on with everyday life. So enjoy your trip, and be yourself. You've got one life to live, and live it the way that makes you most comfortable. Have fun!
2006-07-13 07:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's silly. Weight means nothing. I know that is hard to latch onto when you are young, but you are a very valuable person. If they are good friends, they will tell you the same. To feel comfortable around anyone, you must first feel comfortable with yourself. Think of all the good qualities that outweigh the tiny, insignificant fact that you think you are "bigger". They love you anyway, or they wouldn't hang around.
Be loving and love will follow you. (You can insert any words into this phrase - exciting, optimistic, fun, etc.)
2006-07-13 14:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok 1st of all if they r your real friends they aint judgein u they love u just like u r i have always been big and had friends who was small and they would get upset when i mentioned tryin to lose weight so maybe just keep in mind they love u for who u r
2006-07-13 14:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by jean hllnd_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel good about yourself you will be comfortable.Don't feel bad cause you look different from them,it's the differences that make us who we are.Besides if you ask them i'm pretty sur they have something about themselves that makes them feel uncomfortable too....trust me it's a female complex.
2006-07-13 14:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, and if they are your true, real friends they won't care what you look like. build of your self-esteem
2006-07-13 14:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by happyness0101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself if they've been your friend for this long then they obviously dont care about your size its your pesonality that counts
2006-07-13 14:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by Lexie V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋