I am like a housewife. I went to college and did great things and he hasn't but because I've been out of work for a month, suddenly, I have lost power. The relationship is no longer equal. And I used to have all the money and pay for everything and he was unemployed longer than me. Like five months. But I am now the lesser of the two. And he's only been paying for stuff three weeks. I just ran out of money paying for him.
2006-07-13 07:01:49 · 7 answers · asked by Chap 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If your relationship is a power struggle, then its not much of a relationship. At the very least you both need some serious counseling if you want to make this work
Sounds to me like your problems run a while lot deeper than who pays what. Time to get a handle on the real issues.
2006-07-19 12:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you had a good paying job, why can you not get another one???? And why did you loose power because of loss of money??? Sounds like you should give that boyfriend a boot and yourself as well. Get going girl, you can do it!!!! You did it before!!!
2006-07-13 14:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your relationship is not equal because of money then you should not be in one. I'm sorry but that's the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard.
2006-07-13 14:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it better for someone to take care of you? If you want the way it used to be; then, by all means doing what you used to do.
2006-07-13 14:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by Berserker_Gatsu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ups
2006-07-13 14:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by Hibernating Ladybird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get another job and let him know you still wear the pants and you'll be taking them back soon.
2006-07-13 14:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need some motivation
2006-07-13 14:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋